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Right or Wrong? Hazel E's Husband Goes off on His Parents For Allowing His 18 Year Old Sister to Move in With Her 20 Year Old Boyfriend

Is He Right or Wrong?

  • Right; He has every right to feel a way as a protective big brother.

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • Wrong; He's doing too much.

    Votes: 14 51.9%

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Chynaking

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You think he's right to feel this way or is he overreacting?






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You can tell that he really cares about his sister, and I'm glad he does but he should not have done this publicly.
 

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It's not like it's a huge age gap so what's his problem? They can't stop sh!t she 18 now.
 

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They shouldnt have called him a bad guy for protecting his sister. I agree they shouldn’t had the BF over the house and sharing the same bed like their “married”.
 
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The question is, why is it his business? Especially his business to be discussing with strangers?

That’s his mama’s money to spend. As long as nobody is asking him for sh!t and they aren’t laying up together and showering on his dime, I’m not seeing why it deserves this rant. He got his own wife and child to focus on and like he said, it won’t be his daughter and isn’t so....

I wonder how he would feel if his mother got on Instagram and not only questioned his parenting but encouraged others to do so as well.
 
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The parents can't stop her for moving in with her bf, but it sounds like they are paying her bills and so encouraging the relationship.
 

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I don't fault him for caring about his sister. Most big brothers should be this way about their sisters, but sometimes you have to let them live and learn. He can't make her decisions for her, especially since she's a legal adult. She may not be grown, but she is recognized as an adult. I don't think he should write the family off over this disagreement because life is way too short to be beefing with people you care about over things that you really can't control.
 

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He should be directing his frustrations at the 18yr old, legal enough to do as she pleases sisters vs the parents. I get his anger and him wanting to protect her. But she is at an age where she can decide what she wants to do and where she wants to live without their (or his) permission. She is also at an age where she needs to learn the consequences of her decisions.
 

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So what does he suggest they do? Beat her ass or lock her up in her room? I'm sure they tried to stop her just like they tried to stop his early 20's ass from living with and dating a woman that is 15 years older than him.
 

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It’s not wrong but it’s gonna blow up in her face. His sister is just gonna have to learn the hard way that’s the only thing I can say with confidence regarding the situation.

They’re both so young and obviously still immature, it’s not going to work out and she’ll be crawling back to mama and big brother when she discovers living with a man isn’t all she thought it was gonna be.
 

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He’s right. This is terrible. Y’all know how sloppy teenagers are with their birth control, she’ll most likely end up pregnant and ruin her life.
 

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Everyone wants to be grown until grown consequences start happening then its "your brain matures at 25".

At 18, she needs to be focused on her goals, life, future, staying out of permanent troubles, etc. Young mistakes have a big repercussions and MORE of us need to guide teenagers & young adults away from silly decisions.

It irks people think its not their family duty to give a damn about each others future.
 

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I just couldn't see running to social media to talk about this. Those people on there don't really care and are looking for an opportunity to get responded to off the wall.

I see his frustrations but maybe when the frustration ends he can think of more of a sound solution. He definitely needs to stay connected with her throughout this relationship. I am sure she will need some guidance at one time or another and her brother would be perfect to lean on for advice and/or comfort.
 

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She's 18 so the decision is hers. I did the exact same thing when I turned 18 and guess what? I became pregnant.

I was young and thought I was in love so I wasn't trying to hear sh!t. I just hope she take what he's saying into consideration and get on birth control.
 

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He needs to seek professional therapy. It’s not good to consistently lash out like this. And it ain’t even his life, like mind your business sir.
 

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