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Saira Lowe

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I was involved with my ex boyfriend for about a year and a half. I cut it off because I found out he was cheating on me through a mutual friend. Throughout the time we were together, I never met his family. His friends yes, but never his mum or dad or sisters.

I didn't pry or ask because honestly, I wasn't taking him that seriously nor interested in anything deeper (like marriage etc.) I'm 24 years old btw.

It had been about 6 months since I broke up with him and was casually dating around. I hooked up with a couple guys (not at the same time, you nasties), but nothing serious came out of those. It was in the last couple of weeks, my ex reached out to me.

Long story short, we got back together. He asked me if I wanted to attend Thanksgiving dinner with him and his family and I accepted.

He then showed me a picture of his family on his phone and y'all I almost died when I saw the picture. I recognized his father as one of the same men I slept with previously after we broke up.

I don't want to show up to the dinner, looking at his daddy like...

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I know this will sound fµcked up, but this is honestly his karma for cheating on me..
 

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i hope you're trolling. i really do. but if u arent......u didnt know so u did nothing wrong. but i dont see how anyone could date someone after finding that out.
 

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Nasty ass heifer. SMH. Your clit will fall off, and you will surely perish.
 

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You were single they were single I see nothing wrong. ALSO OP slept with them in different time zones. I would not say anything though.

So who was the better phuck the son or the seasoned dad?
 

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Do Not Say A Thing...However that doesn't mean that your eyes or body language (and his father's) won't give it away.

Btw, is dad still married to his mom? If so, have Thanksgiving somewhere else and change your phone number. Peace out.

This BETTER be a true story. Smh...
 

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If you aren't trolling.......

I wouldn't tell him but I'd break up with him.

You didn't do anything wrong, it's not like you knew. Nor were y'all together.
So, who was better? Big daddy or son?
 

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Yo, please tell him.
And keep it real.

He cheated on you, but you took him back.
And if you both are going to have an honest relationship, you both have to be honest with each other.

As a Male, I would encourage him to break up with you, and keep it moving.
And stop cheating on a Lady who is committed to the relationship they have together.
Cause that makes no logical sense...:neutral

Something tells me you're not going to tell him, which is unfortunate.
Peace.
:peace
 

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lmaooooooooo. this is crazy. Everyday on this website its a new crazy story, but personally i wouldn't say not one word of this to him, if I were you i would pull the father aside PRIVATELY and discuss the matter. If your ex ask why just say it was just something innocent or it was a conversation about him (your ex). I would like to know how the hell you ended up with the father and not know ? dont they look alike ? Did you find him on an dating app ? i need answers dammit !
 

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LMAO here I was thinking you were going to say brother or cousin...FATHER, OP what were you out here doing girl? Are his parents married?
 

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Girl his family are about to DRAG and clown your ass! There’s no way in hell my family would be able to control themselves. Even the children would be talking about you.

It’s better you tell him now than him finding out at the dinner :whistle:
 

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Where's the OP?! She got some questions to answer.

And did you and the father hook up in a hotel? Cause I'm sure you would have recognized the house if you had been there before with his son.
 

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So, who was better? Big daddy or son?

I plead the fifth.

lmaooooooooo. this is crazy. Everyday on this website its a new crazy story, but personally i wouldn't say not one word of this to him, if I were you i would pull the father aside PRIVATELY and discuss the matter. If your ex ask why just say it was just something innocent or it was a conversation about him (your ex). I would like to know how the hell you ended up with the father and not know ? dont they look alike ? Did you find him on an dating app ? i need answers dammit !

No they don't look alike at all. My bf is basically a male version of his mum.
 

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I would make up an excuse to skip that Thanksgiving dinner, OP. This is way too much trouble waiting to happen.
 

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You dated him over a year and never once met his family? Girl just say you were trying to get back at him for cheating. You need to end the entire situation. In case you dont come back with an update after the holidays. (y)
 

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You may not tell him, but depending on his relationship with his dad, daddy might be the one to spill the beans. How do you think the son would react to that? Angrily/violently? Spread your business on social media? Idk, I wouldn't get back with dude or go to that dinner.
 

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Just cut everybody off and start over. Your bf cheated on you so you don't owe him anything but if you move forward with this relationship and this comes out (and it will come out) your bf is gonna dog you out. He will not be able to be in a relationship with you once he finds this out. He already cheated on you. He's going to do that and worse once this comes to light.

A woman may forgive something like this but men are built differently. He's going to be disgusted by the sight of you if he ever finds out.
 

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Make an announcement over dinner. Tell the whole story..be very animated. Rate each partner using a number scale. Let the chips fall where they may. Report back to us immediately.
 

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Maybe they can run a train on you...which would put a nice spin (though freaky as fµck) on the whole Thanksgiving thing.

Make sure to get you plate to take home.
 

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You and your bf was together for almost two years and you didn't take him seriously? Oh ok because that's normal! He ain't got a FB or IG....ok, sis!

I would like to think two grown azz people can see each other and act accordingly....dad knew he was bussing down somebody around his son's age so what's the problem? Either go enjoy the festivities or stay your azz at home.
 

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I plead the fifth.

yeah I want to know too. I think the father ate the meow meow better lol but she don’t want to say.
I want to know, this thread juicy. Plus we don’t know who you are so you can be 100 percent honest with us.
 

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It I was you and the parents were still married, I'd go and act like nothing happened just to let daddy know I know that he knows I see what's up and get me some blackmail money. I'd also cut it off with the son. But ummmmm who was better?
 

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