Bubblyflute
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This is not the one trillionth thread pretending that beautiful black women are oppressed-- I swear.
But it is that SJW feel very uncomfortable with black women who are gender conforming-- not even feminine or beautiful but just regular women. Women who wear light make up, have stereotypical female interest, are maternal and want children and marriage. Or they get upset when they find out you grew up in a 2 parent household and have regular heterosexual relationships and have no problem getting a man. Or they assume you don't deal with xesual harassment-- because who would harass a black woman, am-i-right? There seems to be this attitude that we are neither men nor women in experience-- and it is based on nothing.
They will accuse these women as being "self loathing" or "trying to be white" or just claim they are not the average black woman. I remember being at a book club (the book was about plastic surgery and the pressures of beauty standards) and the speaker said something to the effect that black women can't relate to this-- this woman is a whole ass white woman. I don't see them nearly as controlling over talking on behalf of other groups.
I see this from not just black SJW but white and Asian ones. They constantly use black women as prop and get upset when black women don't fit their stereotype. I feel SJW's want black women to:
1. never be the byproduct of a conventional two parent middle or regular working class family
2. presume all black women deal with a sense of inferiority in relation to white women/non black women physically
3. They we can't be thin or naturally thin (or want to be)-- and if we are it is because we are mixed. Even if her parents are straight from Ghana on both sides and she has dark skin and a broad nose.
4. Most black women are not "queer." There is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual-- but most black women like most women of other groups are straight.
5. An assumption we all have been raped or are dealing with this undescribed "trauma" xesual assault is too common among black women but presenting this image we all have been a victim doesn't achieve anything. Side note: I have noticed people gaslighting black women who are not attracted to white men that we deep down want them but are dealing with "trauma" It is this gross xesual grooming and gaslighting that I can't stand.
Basically if we don't live out some black trauma pδrn life they get really upset.
But it is that SJW feel very uncomfortable with black women who are gender conforming-- not even feminine or beautiful but just regular women. Women who wear light make up, have stereotypical female interest, are maternal and want children and marriage. Or they get upset when they find out you grew up in a 2 parent household and have regular heterosexual relationships and have no problem getting a man. Or they assume you don't deal with xesual harassment-- because who would harass a black woman, am-i-right? There seems to be this attitude that we are neither men nor women in experience-- and it is based on nothing.
They will accuse these women as being "self loathing" or "trying to be white" or just claim they are not the average black woman. I remember being at a book club (the book was about plastic surgery and the pressures of beauty standards) and the speaker said something to the effect that black women can't relate to this-- this woman is a whole ass white woman. I don't see them nearly as controlling over talking on behalf of other groups.
I see this from not just black SJW but white and Asian ones. They constantly use black women as prop and get upset when black women don't fit their stereotype. I feel SJW's want black women to:
1. never be the byproduct of a conventional two parent middle or regular working class family
2. presume all black women deal with a sense of inferiority in relation to white women/non black women physically
3. They we can't be thin or naturally thin (or want to be)-- and if we are it is because we are mixed. Even if her parents are straight from Ghana on both sides and she has dark skin and a broad nose.
4. Most black women are not "queer." There is nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual-- but most black women like most women of other groups are straight.
5. An assumption we all have been raped or are dealing with this undescribed "trauma" xesual assault is too common among black women but presenting this image we all have been a victim doesn't achieve anything. Side note: I have noticed people gaslighting black women who are not attracted to white men that we deep down want them but are dealing with "trauma" It is this gross xesual grooming and gaslighting that I can't stand.
Basically if we don't live out some black trauma pδrn life they get really upset.
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