they don’t love bw on there. I’ve been lurking there a lot and the amount of PAWG or latina threads on there tell you otherwise. Almost every other day some white chick is trending topic. Many of them there are also unapologetic about their preference for mixed or light skinned women. Not saying they should be apologetic about it but rather highlighting how silly and false their claims of “loving BW” is on there.
Yeah right, the numbers and actual reality doesn't align. How are BW acting thirsty and approaching WM like that when everyone knows BW date IR the least. BW barely approach any man (which is something the ecoli loves to talk about too--how we don't approach men the way nonbw do)This is true. The white men I know even admit that hella thirsty black women are up in their faces when they're out.
Y’all. I’ve been lurking on that site a lot lately and this one made me laugh. These dudes are seriously delusional. They themselves believe that bw are SOOOOO undesirable that they can’t fathom the idea that a non black man could actually be interested in a BW. Why do people act like getting a white man is some kind of hard thing? Why are their standards put on a pedestal? I’ve seen average looking bw with non black men. I’m so over folks acting like it’s some difficult thing to do. Men are usually the approachers when it comes to women. Why would it be any different with black women?
here are some screenshots of what they were saying. Truth be told this is just another way to call black women ugly and to reinforce the whole low hanging fruit status. I’m not even claiming that non black men love us because I know that they prefer their own. However this narrative that there must be some kind of underlying motive or that the bw was desperate and chased him down is weird.
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The fact that they are talking about black women in the negative to you, just shows how weak you are.This is true. The white men I know even admit that hella thirsty black women are up in their faces when they're out.
The comments on that thread are absolutely ridiculous and toxic. These are men who have never seen or witnesses happy, functional relationships. It’s not about love with them...it’s all about game and “getting over”. Just really bizarre...There’s this guy that said a woman is supposed to like a man more than he likes her. They’re alright in general but then say weird shit like this to put women down.
Now you know what the inevitable is right? Someone from TheColi is going to see this thread and post it on TheColi. And coli members, if you’re reading this, you can admit these comments your people made are fucking disgusting.
They also make fun of the fact that Halle Berry got her ear drum busted. They call her all types of bedw3nches and shit. They laugh at the fact that she has to pay Gabriel Aubrey child support mind you when most black men date out, specifically to white women, they get their shit cleaned out. When Michelle Obama was talking about the abuse she suffered while in the White House, which is on of the reasons why she didn't want Barack Obama to run for President, they called her a fucking bitch, whore, bringing a black man down, told her to shut her mouth, and accused her of emasculating Barack. Imagine saying that shit about Michelle, who is a ivy league lawyer and was a supportive and amazing first lady; I honestly thought I wondered on to Stormfront. They call Ser3na Williams all types of bedw3nches because she is married to a white man, mind you the black men she dated didn't propose. They even went in on Gabourey Sidobe for having a white fiancé. They hate the fact that Rih@nna was dating Hasaan and rejoiced when their relationship ended; they joyfully speculated that Rih@nna was getting shitted on and that's what she deserves since she is dating out. They have the nerve to call black women bitter when they type disgusting shit like that and called our first and only black first lady disgusting names. I am not saying the white man is better but my god they are foul.
It’s an abusive relationship.
Black men will continue to shit on black women because there are black women who proudly proclaim to love black men and black men ONLY and will still go to bat for them.
Not me though.
Y’all be easy lol
Do worthy white men ever approach you?This is false af! As someone who lives in a predominantly white town, White men..no matter how they look ..including no teeth stank breath and stringy hair will come up to you and holla. Ive been asked out by so many old ugly white men, white husbands, young white men etc. they have no problem asking or pursuing
its the audacity for me that they even think they would have a chanvce with a pretty black woman like me when some dont even consider personal hygiene in their realm
I’ve been lurking the Coli too. I’ve seen some of comments they make about BW and some of them are pretty dismissive of colorism and playing into our stereotypes. It’s fucked up. I’ve also seen threads of them making light of rape and lusting after minors or trying to justify lusting after minors. I don’t go on there anymore. They’re pretty sick.
They’re lying to make themselves feel better and protect their egos. Black men subconsciously see both white women and men are a prize that only the “best” of us can attract. A Black man once said in a video I watched that the only reason Tika Sumpter attracted a white man is because she’s exceptionally beautiful, yet women they consider “ugly” like Serena and Gabourey are also with white men. And suddenly they “always loved” Serena and are disappointed.
Black men are essentially admitting they don’t believe Black women are as beautiful as women of other races. A beautiful woman attracts men of various races. Most Black men don’t think we’re beautiful on average and they definitely don’t love us. They just feel entitled to us.
I actually see more Black women and especially the pick-me “Black love only” types having to holler at Black men for attention and constantly announce how much they love Black men, while getting ignored by those same men.