lol why isn't she consistent?
That's true. I used to lurk e-coli a while ago and noticed there were two types of guys on that forum-- the SUPER pro black FBA/ADOS type who hated white folks and were always talking about being woke and loving their "Black queens" (basically hoteps), and then the Save yourself Black men (SYBM) types who watched a bunch of Tommy Sotomayor and think all Black women are ugly, fat and delusional. Basically the original Black women hating divestors lmao. Generally, both groups were extremely sexist and would bash any Black women they deemed unattractive, or one who was with a non Black man. I remember the meltdown they all had when Lanisha Cole was engaged to that white guy, even though they used to call Black women her complexion slurs. And there would be frequent threads asking which complexion they liked most... just tragic. The guys on there would just compare colorism (something that comes from white supremacy and affects how all Black people are seen in society) to heightism (even though there is research that shows most women tend to prefer men who are taller than us for safety, no matter our race), as if those two things are remotely similar. Only recently have they started showing dark skin women love but even then it's usually only when we're oiled up and half naked with our faces out of frame.they don’t love bw on there. I’ve been lurking there a lot and the amount of PAWG or latina threads on there tell you otherwise. Almost every other day some white chick is trending topic. Many of them there are also unapologetic about their preference for mixed or light skinned women. Not saying they should be apologetic about it but rather highlighting how silly and false their claims of “loving BW” is on there.
black women are in denial........this is how the collective of black males feel, and yes some of them are bold enough to admit it on public platforms.......their ACTIONS towards black women have always spoke for them loudly and proudly......black women simply don't listen.......The first screenshot was so cringe. How can you start a statement with how much you love black women then end it with how we are the least desirable? Why would you post that on a public forum?
it's gaslighting on the black males part.......black males praise non-black women who approach them first, and also complain that black women should approach black males more, but all of a sudden it becomes 'cringe' when a non-black man is in the mix.......its all a gaslighting delusion to keep black women in their 'place'......okay let’s say that’s the case, what is so wrong with a bw being the initiator when it’s a white dude? Or flirting with a white or non black guy? I see black men online (and even some bw on LSA)constantly praising white and latina women for confidently approaching men. About how they don’t just sit around when it’s a guy they like.
I personally don’t believe women should approach men but what is the difference between a black woman approaching a black guy versus a white guy? It’s almost as if people ( not you ) are trying to say “damn these undesirable black chicks really have the audacity to approach people out of their league”. Or since we are “undesirable” it always look desperate when we approach other races.
I see. So what happens if lil bro swirls?Cos that’s what my mother wants! I bet y’all don’t bat a goddamn eye when black parents let young black boys date the rainbow and limit their black daughters to only black boys, but since my mom and others like my mom does the reverse, it’s a problem?
Mind you, black men are still included in my dating pool, she just told me to make sure if I enter the dating scene I do not limit myself to only black men.
Y’all. I’ve been lurking on that site a lot lately and this one made me laugh. These dudes are seriously delusional. They themselves believe that bw are SOOOOO undesirable that they can’t fathom the idea that a non black man could actually be interested in a BW. Why do people act like getting a white man is some kind of hard thing? Why are their standards put on a pedestal? I’ve seen average looking bw with non black men. I’m so over folks acting like it’s some difficult thing to do. Men are usually the approachers when it comes to women. Why would it be any different with black women?
here are some screenshots of what they were saying. Truth be told this is just another way to call black women ugly and to reinforce the whole low hanging fruit status. I’m not even claiming that non black men love us because I know that they prefer their own. However this narrative that there must be some kind of underlying motive or that the bw was desperate and chased him down is weird.
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!!!!its projection........that is how the black male moves, so he assumes that is how black women move.......black males operate by gender and black women operate by race......this is one of the reasons why its dumb for black women to move as racial soldiers when black males don't.......
and its also projection with black males, that many of them do find black women 'ugly', so yes alot of black males can't perceive that non-black men wouldn't find black women 'ugly' as well........all the toxic things that black males do, they project it on to black women........
black women are in denial........this is how the collective of black males feel, and yes some of them are bold enough to admit it on public platforms.......their ACTIONS towards black women have always spoke for them loudly and proudly......black women simply don't listen.......
Y’all. I’ve been lurking on that site a lot lately and this one made me laugh. These dudes are seriously delusional. They themselves believe that bw are SOOOOO undesirable that they can’t fathom the idea that a non black man could actually be interested in a BW. Why do people act like getting a white man is some kind of hard thing? Why are their standards put on a pedestal? I’ve seen average looking bw with non black men. I’m so over folks acting like it’s some difficult thing to do. Men are usually the approachers when it comes to women. Why would it be any different with black women?
here are some screenshots of what they were saying. Truth be told this is just another way to call black women ugly and to reinforce the whole low hanging fruit status. I’m not even claiming that non black men love us because I know that they prefer their own. However this narrative that there must be some kind of underlying motive or that the bw was desperate and chased him down is weird.
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Your personal experience is not an accurate reflection of the general populace, though. In the same way, I've always seen yt men approach BW and never ever the other way around. That doesn't mean I can go around claiming BW never initiate 'cause my personal experience is not a representation of reality.Unpopular opinion but I have seen many bw be the initiator-hell last week we literally saw Lizzo slide in Chris Jamal Evans dms. I've been out and seen bw approach white men and flirt. But I've always thought that bw are very secure and confident that way.
But I find it annoying that these bm think that being a bw means men in general dont approach us. BW are approachedd/cat called regardless of the race of the man.
And to be honest I'm so tired of white interest being the measuring scale of attractiveness and ultimately worth in the black community.
We have to blame these heffas like this.
exactly so insulting. I see similar sentiments on Kevin samuels channel too. You love black women but you make sure to remind us how undesirable we are and how no one wants us. That is some love indeed.
and another I’ve noticed on there is that they laugh at the whole black women loyalty thing. They don’t believe that some black women simply just want black love and black kids. They think we just stick to black men because we can’t get anyone else. If that is how some of them feel about black womens loyalty, then what is the point of some bw always screaming and shouting from the rooftops about how they only want black kings? I used to be one of those girls but I keep my preferences to myself these days. When anyone asks me what kind of guy I like, I simply just say I like everyone. No mention of race. No one should be put on any pedestal.
they don’t love bw on there. I’ve been lurking there a lot and the amount of PAWG or latina threads on there tell you otherwise. Almost every other day some white chick is trending topic. Many of them there are also unapologetic about their preference for mixed or light skinned women. Not saying they should be apologetic about it but rather highlighting how silly and false their claims of “loving BW” is on there.
Both things can be trueThe first screenshot was so cringe. How can you start a statement with how much you love black women then end it with how we are the least desirable? Why would you post that on a public forum?
Yeah right, the numbers and actual reality doesn't align. How are BW acting thirsty and approaching WM like that when everyone knows BW date IR the least. BW barely approach any man (which is something the ecoli loves to talk about too--how we don't approach men the way nonbw do)This is true. The white men I know even admit that hella thirsty black women are up in their faces when they're out.
honestly, this sounds like every lsa troll
Y’all. I’ve been lurking on that site a lot lately and this one made me laugh. These dudes are seriously delusional. They themselves believe that bw are SOOOOO undesirable that they can’t fathom the idea that a non black man could actually be interested in a BW. Why do people act like getting a white man is some kind of hard thing? Why are their standards put on a pedestal? I’ve seen average looking bw with non black men. I’m so over folks acting like it’s some difficult thing to do. Men are usually the approachers when it comes to women. Why would it be any different with black women?
here are some screenshots of what they were saying. Truth be told this is just another way to call black women ugly and to reinforce the whole low hanging fruit status. I’m not even claiming that non black men love us because I know that they prefer their own. However this narrative that there must be some kind of underlying motive or that the bw was desperate and chased him down is weird.
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The fact that they are talking about black women in the negative to you, just shows how weak you are.This is true. The white men I know even admit that hella thirsty black women are up in their faces when they're out.
The comments on that thread are absolutely ridiculous and toxic. These are men who have never seen or witnesses happy, functional relationships. It’s not about love with them...it’s all about game and “getting over”. Just really bizarre...There’s this guy that said a woman is supposed to like a man more than he likes her. They’re alright in general but then say weird sh!t like this to put women down.
I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.
When a man truly loves a woman she starts to lose interest in him because he becomes less of a challenge. Think of all the men in relationships with women they aren't in love with. Notice how the woman sticks like glue. This is science.www.thecoli.com
Now you know what the inevitable is right? Someone from TheColi is going to see this thread and post it on TheColi. And coli members, if you’re reading this, you can admit these comments your people made are fµck!ng disgusting.
They also make fun of the fact that Halle Berry got her ear drum busted. They call her all types of bedw3nches and sh!t. They laugh at the fact that she has to pay Gabriel Aubrey child support mind you when most black men date out, specifically to white women, they get their sh!t cleaned out. When Michelle Obama was talking about the abuse she suffered while in the White House, which is on of the reasons why she didn't want Barack Obama to run for President, they called her a fµck!ng b!tch, hoe, bringing a black man down, told her to shut her mouth, and accused her of emasculating Barack. Imagine saying that sh!t about Michelle, who is a ivy league lawyer and was a supportive and amazing first lady; I honestly thought I wondered on to Stormfront. They call Ser3na Williams all types of bedw3nches because she is married to a white man, mind you the black men she dated didn't propose. They even went in on Gabourey Sidobe for having a white fiancé. They hate the fact that Rih@nna was dating Hasaan and rejoiced when their relationship ended; they joyfully speculated that Rih@nna was getting shitted on and that's what she deserves since she is dating out. They have the nerve to call black women bitter when they type disgusting sh!t like that and called our first and only black first lady disgusting names. I am not saying the white man is better but my god they are foul.