vickyvik
Rookie
I'm gonna play the devil advocate here:
I have to ask: at this point, How many of us Bf hadn't been called a racial slur by another Bf at least once in our lives? I had a friend who once called me a "lil (the N word with the hard R) b!tch" of course I would be lying if I said I felt comfortable with it, but if it was a non Black or even a Bm who did it now that would have really pissed me off and it would have been a whole different story.
Nicki is a Black woman herself, is married to a Black man, promotes Bm/Bf relationship mutual appreciation and love, and has confronted bm who badmouth Black girls and women.
I have more in common with her than I would with some Black or mixed who claims to be on our side, yet dates whites, promotes neocolonization, and lives in a privileged all-white community. It's literally the kind of "support" that I can live without.
And do not get me wrong, I do NOT condone her behavior, but at least she has shown with facts that she's pro-Black, has beautiful black children and is not a lying show-off.
"Actions speak louder than words"
I have to ask: at this point, How many of us Bf hadn't been called a racial slur by another Bf at least once in our lives? I had a friend who once called me a "lil (the N word with the hard R) b!tch" of course I would be lying if I said I felt comfortable with it, but if it was a non Black or even a Bm who did it now that would have really pissed me off and it would have been a whole different story.
Nicki is a Black woman herself, is married to a Black man, promotes Bm/Bf relationship mutual appreciation and love, and has confronted bm who badmouth Black girls and women.
I have more in common with her than I would with some Black or mixed who claims to be on our side, yet dates whites, promotes neocolonization, and lives in a privileged all-white community. It's literally the kind of "support" that I can live without.
And do not get me wrong, I do NOT condone her behavior, but at least she has shown with facts that she's pro-Black, has beautiful black children and is not a lying show-off.
"Actions speak louder than words"
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