Lady Sith
Team Owner
they are letting her have it in the comments lmao.I dont feel xesual attraction to someone unless Ive first developed a deep emotional connection to them.
I grew up assuming that I was "normal." I thought that other people were like me and that I was like them. As I got older, though, I realized that something just wasn't quite right.
I felt different about crushes and relationships than those around me. I didn't understand the other girls' obsessions with celebrities. I was grossed out when people would date just for the attention or experience. I got awkward stares when I admitted that I didn't have a crush on a single one of the boys I knew.
Then one day I figured it out. I've been attracted to guys before, and I'm never attracted to other girls, but I'm not quite heterosexual either. I'm what they call a demisexual.
Youve probably never heard of demisexuality. Very few people have. What it means is that I dont feel xesual attraction to someone unless Ive first developed a deep emotional connection to them. That doesnt mean Ill become attracted to everyone I get that bond with, but it is a prerequisite.
Many people Ive spoken to mistake this for being "normal." They think I only mean I wouldnt sleep with someone before I got to know them, which they themselves would not do.
For one thing, tons of people have flings, so being more selective isnt always the norm. For another, most people feel xesual attraction to others, regardless of whether or not they would rationally act on those feelings. I, on the other hand, just barely understand what it means to feel xesual attraction.
As you might assume, demisexuality has kind of stunted my ability to be in relationships. While Im open to casual dating in theory, it doesnt really appeal to me. Since I dont know the person, I feel no attraction to them and dont care to date them.
read the rest of this im so marginalized bµllsh!t here.
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