Those struggling with sin thread

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So all my threads about x.e. s got sent to the forbidden place so lets try this again.


What are some sins you are dealing with?

What are sins you overcame?


Romans 6:6-7
6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with,[a] that we should no longer be slaves to sin 7 because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.

 
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I’m struggling with premarital sex with my fiancé. A little over three months until we’re married. He’s so understanding about my decision, tho.

I don’t watch porn (anymore), but keeping the desire quiet is HARD.

Sometimes I think just do it; we’re in a committed relationship, but that dern Bible keeps chasing me!
 
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I’m struggling with premarital sex with my fiancé. A little over three months until we’re married. He’s so understanding about my decision, tho.

I don’t watch porn (anymore), but keeping the desire quiet is HARD.

Sometimes I think just do it; we’re in a committed relationship, but that dern Bible keeps chasing me!



Quiet as in you haven’t told Him you used to watch it?
 
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Quiet as in you haven’t told I’m you used to watch it?


I have no desire to watch porn any more. I just mentioned to say that porn isn’t my issue. I wasn’t ever into porn; just watched sometimes when I was in that mood.

It’s keeping my desire to just do it with my fiancé quiet, to him. I don’t want us to go there, especially since we only have 4 months to go until marriage.

Oh, we talk about sex, what we’re gonna do, how we want each other sexually, BUT I try not to let him see my DESIRE like saying omg I’m so thirsty for you etc. I know he already knows.

It’s SO hard!!
(Lmao the pun hard)
 
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im praying for more patience and faith ( i worry too much as a believer) and i am eating a lot again.
asking for God's help with that


I understand and am the same way as you, especially with the eating.

I’m type 1 diabetic and I must watch my food/weight/eating, but my anxiety needs me to eat for comfort even to my own health detriment.


We’re filling ourselves up with food because eating feels so damn good. We’re in desperate need of psychologically feeling well right now in the moment, and we don’t give God a chance to teach us self-control AND that He’s with us and loving us and watching us as the most loving person in the universe to us.
 
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Tumblr is the devil.
I swear I'm scrolling all inocently and boom porn gifs and vid (I don't follow porn blogs)
I though follow christian blogs buuut they rarely post and when they do it on a sunday lol so sundays I get mostle christian content and that's it.

Another thing is Tarot/law of attraction/chanting mantras. When I want answers I get tempted to go to tarot instead of praying and waiting on the Lord.
So yeah I need more discipline(Ive already repented from these forms of witchcraft) buuut the desire is still there. Also I want a closer relationship with the Lord so I can trust and lean on him/his word more

*sigh* I'm getting desperate
 
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Tumblr is the devil.
I swear I'm scrolling all inocently and boom porn gifs and vid (I don't follow porn blogs)
I though follow christian blogs buuut they rarely post and when they do it on a sunday lol so sundays I get mostle christian content and that's it.

Another thing is Tarot/law of attraction/chanting mantras. When I want answers I get tempted to go to tarot instead of praying and waiting on the Lord.
So yeah I need more discipline(Ive already repented from these forms of witchcraft) buuut the desire is still there. Also I want a closer relationship with the Lord so I can trust and lean on him/his word more

*sigh* I'm getting desperate



Have you found a solution from these mantras?
 
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I’m working on more self disciple. I have my days
I’m working on being more honest ( little white lies)
I’m working on my anxiety ( it’s getting better) and my overthinking. Today was a good day.
I really struggle with lust.
 
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I've been masterbating and watching porn for the past few days. This is a habit I've had for years on and off though. I woke in the middle of the night and went into prayer after thinking about the Lord and how I'm offending Him. Iasked for forgiveness, etc and threw my toy away.

Let's pray I dont go in the trash for it later.

Edit: I did get it out the trash a few times before it actually left the premises. The toy is gone, but I still masturbated a few times since its absence. I kinda regretted throwing my toy out.
 
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I've been masterbating and watching porn for the past few days. This is a habit I've had for years on and off though. I woke in the middle of the night and went into prayer after thinking about the Lord and how I'm offending Him. Iasked for forgiveness, etc and threw my toy away.

Let's pray I dont go in the trash for it later.




break it and burn it and run it over with your car.



Four years ago when I stopped completely, i kept having this thought like "buy a toy" over and over again. It kept nagging me.
But i knew I wouldn't because i never go to a sex store, and would be too embarrassed to go to a store and have cashier ring it up. And wouldn't want to order it on online. eventually the thought went away. but when I slipped last month it came up again.
 
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break it and burn it and run it over with your car.



Four years ago when I stopped completely, i kept having this thought like "buy a toy" over and over again. It kept nagging me.
But i knew I wouldn't because i never go to a sex store, and would be too embarrassed to go to a store and have cashier ring it up. And wouldn't want to order it on online. eventually the thought went away. but when I slipped last month it came up again.
Ot can be hard to ignore the thoughts, especially of you've experienced a toy before.

Some Christians are divided on this topic and will say its okay to have a toy, but l know that for me if I get that toy out I'm going to have sexual thoughts while using it. If the thoughts aren't stimulating enough for me, I think, "Well I may as well just turn on the video..". It seems like the toy gives the enemy an open door to keep tempting you and leading you to sin.
 
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Tumblr is the devil.
Tumblr has a porn bot crisis, and also just normal people with porn blogs, trying to throw it in the faces of people. They'll randomly reblog your stuff, including the porn bots who are now even more intelligent, thus making you come across it.
 
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Ot can be hard to ignore the thoughts, especially of you've experienced a toy before.

Some Christians are divided on this topic and will say its okay to have a toy, but l know that for me if I get that toy out I'm going to have sexual thoughts while using it. If the thoughts aren't stimulating enough for me, I think, "Well I may as well just turn on the video..". It seems like the toy gives the enemy an open door to keep tempting you and leading you to sin.

Really!? This wouldn't fly with the christians I know

Since having it will cause you to stray then you shouldn't have it anymore especially if you're single because you shouldn't be sexual outside of marriage .

Tumblr has a porn bot crisis, and also just normal people with porn blogs, trying to throw it in the faces of people. They'll randomly reblog your stuff, including the porn bots who are now even more intelligent, thus making you come across it.
the porn bots are freaking annoying!
 
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Late to the party, but I'm also struggling with pornography and tarot cards/law of attraction.

I watched porn last night and I felt so awful.

I also caved and did some tarot readings because I'm really anxious about my love life and future.

I'm so close to just saying screw it and maybe I'm not cut out for this.
 
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Late to the party, but I'm also struggling with pornography and tarot cards/law of attraction.

I watched porn last night and I felt so awful.

I also caved and did some tarot readings because I'm really anxious about my love life and future.

I'm so close to just saying screw it and maybe I'm not cut out for this.

That's the enemy trying to discourage and distract you.

God does not give you the spirit of anxiousness but of peace and patience.

(Check out the fruits of the spirit)

Also, playing with Tarot cards invite demons into your life. I've fell for that but ask God for TRUE forgiveness and he will forgive.

"Seek me and you shall find me"

Pray to God and give him thanks for who he is/REPENT/ ask him to remove these demons and temptations from your life.

End it with "In the name/blood of Jesus" Amen.

He will hear your cry. God bless you.
 
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Last week, I was doing my weekly bible read and came across something that spoke to me and made me think of this thread.

1 Corinthians 6

Sexual Immorality
12 “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything. 13 You say, “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food, and God will destroy them both.” The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also.

Bible Gateway passage: 1 Corinthians 6 - New International Version

Don't let your sexual desires be your master and run your life. You can overcome them if you fully and truly go to God. Don't be ashamed to go to him about your sexual desires. Ask him for the willpower to overcome them and forgiveness.
 
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I was doing very well for over two weeks but I fumbled again.
I know exactly why.
Than you guys for pointing out more scriptures.
I will learn to discipline the way I react to certain situations which lead me to p0rπ and m∆stub3ti0n.
 
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Tumblr has a porn bot crisis, and also just normal people with porn blogs, trying to throw it in the faces of people. They'll randomly reblog your stuff, including the porn bots who are now even more intelligent, thus making you come across it.
This is a huge reason as to why I have Tumblr blocked on my phone.
 

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