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No face, no case.
Long story short: I met this man and we have been on some dates and just generally seeing each other in the past 3 months. He is in finance and I am in the law field. We’re both mid to late twenties.
We’ve been hitting it off so well. He ticks every box for me. Point blank period I want a relationship and I stated that. He however claims that with his career he is too busy for one. He said he understands if I don’t want to see him anymore. His logic is that he would rather us end on a good note and if we ever cross paths in the future where we’re both available, maybe we can try then.
He does work 70-80 hour weeks at times (which is true for people in finance) and has past failed relationships due to lack of quality time together. He said that has made him apprehensive about committing to another woman knowing that he is still working the same long hours. However, I still think his excuse is kind of lame.
I feel that if you really want to be with someone, you should try to make it work. But I am aware that I have a fairytale look on life. I always think true love should be easy but that may not be realistic.
I’m going to break things off but my ego is definitely bruised because this is technically rejection. And if you’re actively dating, you know how bad it is out there. I finally found someone who I wanted to be with and of course this happens.
My question for LSA is would you believe him? What would you do? How would you get over this?
I would prefer answers from people who have actually dated or been in relationships. No offense to those who haven’t.
We’ve been hitting it off so well. He ticks every box for me. Point blank period I want a relationship and I stated that. He however claims that with his career he is too busy for one. He said he understands if I don’t want to see him anymore. His logic is that he would rather us end on a good note and if we ever cross paths in the future where we’re both available, maybe we can try then.
He does work 70-80 hour weeks at times (which is true for people in finance) and has past failed relationships due to lack of quality time together. He said that has made him apprehensive about committing to another woman knowing that he is still working the same long hours. However, I still think his excuse is kind of lame.
I feel that if you really want to be with someone, you should try to make it work. But I am aware that I have a fairytale look on life. I always think true love should be easy but that may not be realistic.
I’m going to break things off but my ego is definitely bruised because this is technically rejection. And if you’re actively dating, you know how bad it is out there. I finally found someone who I wanted to be with and of course this happens.
My question for LSA is would you believe him? What would you do? How would you get over this?
I would prefer answers from people who have actually dated or been in relationships. No offense to those who haven’t.