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Touched by my cousin ...

What should I do ?

  • Should I tell him

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  • Should I just take it to the grave ...

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flyish

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When I was 9 my cousin did horrible things to me he was 12 at the time .. I told my mother she did nothing about it she said the same thing happened to him that’s why he did it to me now that I’m older I realized my mom was wrong she didn’t protect me at all I love her and hate her at the same time but anyway she made me not tell my dad anything I am now 25 and I want to finally tell my dad but then I don’t I’m confused what should I do ?
 

CatchThesehandsHOE

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I think you should tell your dad and speak to a therapist.

Your mom is horrible for trying to keep this a secret. You should also tell your dad what your mom told you.

Be sure to discuss this with a therapist before you approach your Dad this is going to be a tough conversation to have.
 

LolaClaysWig

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When I was 9 my cousin did horrible things to me he was 12 at the time .. I told my mother she did nothing about it she said the same thing happened to him that’s why he did it to me now that I’m older I realized my mom was wrong she didn’t protect me at all I love her and hate her at the same time but anyway she made me not tell my dad anything I am now 25 and I want to finally tell my dad but then I don’t I’m confused what should I do ?

You need to tell you Dad, seek the help of a therapist ASAP, and then confront your mother on her horrible response. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this.
 

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