I deal with this from the doctors every time I go for a pap smear and I tell them that I'm not xesually active and have not been for many years. UghI don’t have a story (thankfully and hopefully never) but when I was in college my roommate and I were cool. She told me that she had gotten her first pap smear. Not because she was xesually active but because she kept having abdomel pain and heavy bleeding (I remember even calling our RA one time because she was on the floor in so much pain and I was just scared for her). When she came back she told me the nurse asked if she was xesually active and she told her no. She said the nurse yelled, “You’ve never had xes?” In such a loud and derogatory way. I felt so bad for her. I was like, why did the nurse have to even repeat her answer. Not everyone was bussin down him high school or their first year of college.
They need to have more respect for everyone’s personal decisions and mind the way they react to answers.I deal with this from the doctors every time I go for a pap smear and I tell them that I'm not xesually active and have not been for many years. Ugh
I dealt with that with a relative, they falsely accuse me of being pregnant. I told them that it has a lot of good vitamins and minerals that would be more expensive to buy otherwise.I had a black physicians assistant tell me to not take prenatal vitamins because they will have no effect on me because I’m not pregnant. I sh!t you not