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People who apologize all the time. This always makes me think someone had them on edge and used to break them down over little stuff. I hate to see this
 

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reckless behavior. not caring about their own wellbeing. they shrug off life altering dangerous situation as if they dont care if they make it out alive or not
 

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Make self deprecating comments about their selves.
Promiscuous.
Has multiple baby mama's/daddy's.
Abuse others.
Constant cheat or liar.
Date trash over and over again.
 

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Mistrustful of everyone.
Quick to anger and or sadness.
Long periods of self imposed isolation.
Pessimistic.
Paranoia.
String of bad interpersonal relationships.

Speaking from experience.
 

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People who apologize all the time. This always makes me think someone had them on edge and used to break them down over little stuff. I hate to see this

yikes, this was me! I made a point last year to stop apologizing, but it was bad. I apologized for e v e r y t h i n g to the point where people were regularly telling meI don't need to. It was embarassing, but my ex-boyfriend and my mother made me feel like everything I said and did was a huge inconvenience to others. It took a long time to feel comfortable taking up space.
 
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People that are too nice to other people and give way more than they receive, I tend to think it's a way of turning away from their own problems. And people who always disagree when complimented, they probably grew being taught they're not deserving or capable.
 

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Make self deprecating comments about their selves.
Promiscuous.
Has multiple baby mama's/daddy's.
Abuse others.
Constant cheat or liar.
Date trash over and over again.
All This. Then add...
Anger issues
Difficulty with emotions/expressing emotions
Covers pain with drugs and alcohol (in addition to promiscuity)
Low self esteem
Constant lying to avoid conflict or getting into trouble

From experience.
 

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One of the biggest signs is apathy. At some point you cannot make yourself care anymore.
Other signs are:
Low self esteem
Prone to anger/or sadness,
Lack of trust in everyone.
Putting others on pedestals. You still don't trust them, but you do admire people to the point where it becomes an obsession.
Being a doormat.
 

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yikes, this was me! I made a point last year to stop apologizing, but it was bad. I apologized for e v e r y t h i n g to the point where people were regularly telling meI don't need to. It was embarassing, but my ex-boyfriend and my mother made me feel like everything I said and did was a huge inconvenience to others. It took a long time to feel comfortable taking up space.
lol weren’t you just whining in my other thread about this one? why did you even answer if you had a problem?
 

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lol weren’t you just whining in my other thread about this one? why did you even answer if you had a problem?

because a) I'm not a broken woman, b) that font isn't making weird thread after weird thread, and c) I didn't respond to the thread I responded to a specific font.
 

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because a) I'm not a broken woman, b) that font isn't making weird thread after weird thread, and c) I didn't respond to the thread I responded to a specific font.
b!tch, if you thought it was weird, you should have never responded in here. My title also says “broken individual/woman”, I damn sure didn’t ask fonts if they were broken, I started a thread to talk about signs of people who are. These are human topics that people discuss. You’re just triggered.
 

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People who apologize all the time. This always makes me think someone had them on edge and used to break them down over little stuff. I hate to see this
What!?!? I apologize even if I’m right. I don’t want to argue too much with people I love and I like to make amends. That way if they die I won’t have regrets. I do my part. I felt that was being a peacemaker/ bigger person not broken
 

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b!tch, if you thought it was weird, you should have never responded in here. My title also says “broken individual/woman”, I damn sure didn’t ask fonts if they were broken, I started a thread to talk about signs of people who are. These are human topics that people discuss. You’re just triggered.

ok girl you got it! I'm sure you'll be trending in here soon (y) :disdain
 

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What!?!? I apologize even if I’m right. I don’t want to argue too much with people I love and I like to make amends. That way if they die I won’t have regrets. I do my part. I felt that was being a peacemaker/ bigger person not broken
Also, if you’re raised Christian, they tell you to apologize when offending others so we are sometimes taught certain behaviors
 

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girl bye yourself! catch you in your next thread 'signs of someone i can easily take advantage of?'
lol girl.. if that’s what you got from THIS thread, I’ll just say a prayer for you tonight. Please go fµck yourself
Idk if you’re dumb, stupid or slow.. but when someone says “bye”, that means stop responding. You’re very argumentative!
 

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Bored ass little girls don’t have anything better to do.. they come in threads turning something lighthearted, into a negative.
 

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What do you guys think?
I think people that are overly critical of others are very broken. They use a microscope to inspect other people's imperfections, but can't take it when it's done to them. It's less work to point out other people's faults than to work on their own imperfections.
 

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One of the biggest signs is apathy. At some point you cannot make yourself care anymore.
Other signs are:
Low self esteem
Prone to anger/or sadness,
Lack of trust in everyone.
Putting others on pedestals. You still don't trust them, but you do admire people to the point where it
What even is this post.

Some things aren't worth giving a sh!t about.

Arent anger and sadness human emotions that everyone experiences?

Also whoooo the fµck trusts everyone????
 

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I also don't like the term broken when used as an adjective for people.

Broken implies you are damaged and thus bad. You are not bad for being pessimistic. You are not bad for experiencing anger or sadness. You are not bad for not trusting people. Especially if all of those things stem from trauma. You are not bad or damaged because someone chose to abuse you, rape you, assault you. So if someone has had a "blessed" life without any abuse or traumatic events, they are un-broken and thus good? I don't believe that. People underestimate the brain and how life experiences can shape and mold how it processes input and output.
 

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People who apologize all the time. This always makes me think someone had them on edge and used to break them down over little stuff. I hate to see this
That's literally me i apologize to much. Getting hit when k was younger is one of the root causes. Once my father slapped my for asking I could go to a restaurant.
 

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She has no peace about her. Can't enjoy a beach day, picnic or a leisurely activity. She makes it unnecessarily aggy and miserable.

If she sees you have peace, she purposely disrupts it.
 

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She has no peace about her. Can't enjoy a beach day, picnic or a leisurely activity. She makes it unnecessarily aggy and miserable.

If she sees you have peace, she purposely disrupts it.
I said individuals, not just women.
 

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