Brwnsugabaee
Mrs. Bulma Briefs
With Molly and Andrew's breakup on last night finale, it got me thinking. While Molly and Andrew seemed great on paper - great xesual chemistry, genuinely liked each other and etc. Molly's deep-seated issues drove him away. Also, it seems like Molly didn't offer Andrew much. He was also so kind, compassionate to her issues, an open ear while she was pretty judgemental and selfish.
It seems like the general census is that she was in it for the wrong reasons and was unwillingly to work on herself to fix it.
The question is what are the right reasons? I, myself have never been in a relationship, but over the years have observed my family/friends dealing with men/relationships.
Here are some opinions on what reasons/ things you should bring to a relationship.
While mutual attraction is what gets the fire started it's not enough to hold a relationship. Too many times have I seen my friends or just people, in general, get with someone based on looks or xesual attraction for it later to fall apart because they have nothing in common. Behind that attraction has to be a solid foundation.
I believe you also need to have the same values as the person you're with. It's impossible to 100% agree with someone on every subject but if your values are on two completely different spectrums, it most likely won't end well. Having the same values gives you lay down that first foundation.
For me personally, I cannot see myself wasting time being in a relationship with someone unless I see a future with them and am able to grow and build with. Just imagine building someone great with that one person in the world and being able to share that special moment with them must be the most amazing feeling in the world.
I also think you need someone who challenges you and holds you accountable and vice versa. As time goes on in relationship, people start to grow and change. You and your partner should be able to grow together.
And lastly, I think you should be able to be 100% your true self at all times (this comes with the good and bad ) and that person accepts you for who you are and still wants to be with you.
These are just my opinions. I'd love to see what you ladies think are the right reasons for a relationship.
Let's discuss!!
It seems like the general census is that she was in it for the wrong reasons and was unwillingly to work on herself to fix it.
The question is what are the right reasons? I, myself have never been in a relationship, but over the years have observed my family/friends dealing with men/relationships.
Here are some opinions on what reasons/ things you should bring to a relationship.
While mutual attraction is what gets the fire started it's not enough to hold a relationship. Too many times have I seen my friends or just people, in general, get with someone based on looks or xesual attraction for it later to fall apart because they have nothing in common. Behind that attraction has to be a solid foundation.
I believe you also need to have the same values as the person you're with. It's impossible to 100% agree with someone on every subject but if your values are on two completely different spectrums, it most likely won't end well. Having the same values gives you lay down that first foundation.
For me personally, I cannot see myself wasting time being in a relationship with someone unless I see a future with them and am able to grow and build with. Just imagine building someone great with that one person in the world and being able to share that special moment with them must be the most amazing feeling in the world.
I also think you need someone who challenges you and holds you accountable and vice versa. As time goes on in relationship, people start to grow and change. You and your partner should be able to grow together.
And lastly, I think you should be able to be 100% your true self at all times (this comes with the good and bad ) and that person accepts you for who you are and still wants to be with you.
These are just my opinions. I'd love to see what you ladies think are the right reasons for a relationship.
Let's discuss!!