Bubblyflute
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What do men mean when they say they want women to "love them for them." Does it mean just liking someone for existing ?? Liking someone just for their personality?? Because personality is one factor in why women like a man. He can have a "good personality" but be a loser (low income, no education, low skilled job). But to be honest I don't think even that is true.
There is no such thing as having a good personality, but not having the life skills, career, educational achievement that women expect of men. A persons behavior and achievement is part of who they are. It says something about their drive, ambition, self esteem, intelligence. A man could be kind, respectful, okay looking, but I would be xesually repulsed if I found out he was working for Walmart for 10 years and had no intention of looking for better work.
What do men mean??
There is no such thing as having a good personality, but not having the life skills, career, educational achievement that women expect of men. A persons behavior and achievement is part of who they are. It says something about their drive, ambition, self esteem, intelligence. A man could be kind, respectful, okay looking, but I would be xesually repulsed if I found out he was working for Walmart for 10 years and had no intention of looking for better work.
What do men mean??