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Unpopular opinion but over complimenting someone is a sign of insecurity
So you can't ask a question without it being considered a problemExactly. Like where is the problem?
Not saying people shouldn't compliment you. I stated (or at least I meant to say) the same person compliments you on the same thing every time they see you i.e. "I like those braids'" next time you see them: "you and Monica wear the best looking braids," next time you see them: "those braids look really good on you." I'm not saying different people compliment you, the same person compliments you everytime you see them. A Font said earlier that they may admire you and that sounds logical to me.
Now this is someone of the same xes and no they are not trying to hit on you. I notice the Housewives shows do it all the time. Like they always have to say something about someone's "physical" appearance.
Me and my coworkers gas each other up EVERY MORNING.
Even when they don't look their best "Girl, I see you out here, SHOWERING! Smelling like soap!"
Me too! I know it's tough for some people to even get out of bed (I've been there) so I always compliment!
They're definitely fake. On the rhobh reunion last year, Andy asked them about this. Kyle said she doesn't know why they do it, especially bc during filming they see each other almost daily lol. She admitted it looks fake and over the top when she sees the footage lol. I mean every time they see each other they have to fawn over everything from head to toe.Now this is someone of the same xes and no they are not trying to hit on you. I notice the Housewives shows do it all the time. Like they always have to say something about someone's "physical" appearance.
I have a friend who does the exact same thing.I have a friend who always compliments me when we first meet up. Every single time. Either my hair, my makeup, my purse, or some item of clothing. It doesn't BOTHER me, per se. But I do kind feel like I'm always getting a once over or my wardrobe is being analyzed. She'll even be like, "When did you get those shoes? I've never seen those!"
Could you expandUnpopular opinion but over complimenting someone is a sign of insecurity
When I mean over complimenting I dont mean compliments that are things like oh your bracelet looks nice, your hair is styled cute today, I'm talking the over the top compliments all the time like "Wow, you are the most beautiful person I've seen" "omg you are sooo beautiful" like ALL the time. I think when people do things like that all the time it just seems insecure and it could be love bombing (a tactic for manipulation). Its not normal to be overly focused on someone's appearance to the point where you need to compliment or point it out all the time. After that it just comes across as insincere, disingenuous and a bit obsessive.Could you expand
Yeah I see what you mean usually my compliments are just me pointing out my observation sometimes I don’t mean to make it a compliment I used to like giving compliments till a girl told me not to do thatWhen I mean over complimenting I dont mean compliments that are things like oh your bracelet looks nice, your hair is styled cute today, I'm talking the over the top compliments all the time like "Wow, you are the most beautiful person I've seen" "omg you are sooo beautiful" like ALL the time. I think when people do things like that all the time it just seems insecure and it could be love bombing (a tactic for manipulation). Its not normal to be overly focused on someone's appearance to the point where you need to compliment or point it out all the time. After that it just comes across as insincere, disingenuous and a bit obsessive.
And I don't agree with complimenting all the time means that "you aren't jealous" some of the fonts on here sound like inexperienced little kids. There are many fake people out here that can compliment you even excessively and still be hating on the low.
I do this to school aged children, I think they need it.I always compliment my friends when I see them. I can find at least one good thing to say about just about anyone. It feels good to get and receive compliments. Nothing wrong with it.
You can feel the sincerity from a young person.But why did I have this lil white girl ask her mom if she could come up to me and give me a hug and tell me I’m beautiful? Y’all that made my YEAR!!
it was so moving. It made me wanna cry because it’s so honest and sincere. And it made also want to have a baby right then and there. I love kids.You can feel the sincerity from a young person.
Why do you say that? Do you think they do it hoping for one in return?Unpopular opinion but over complimenting someone is a sign of insecurity
I already commented why, scroll upWhy do you say that? Do you think they do it hoping for one in return?
I saw it as I continued reading after I commented.I already commented why, scroll up