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What do you think about someone complimenting you EVERYTIME they see you??

How do you take constant compliments (from the same person) about your hair, nails, clothes, etc?

  • I don't mind they're just trying to be nice.

  • It creeps me out and makes me wonder why they seem to be watching me.

  • I'm a constant complimenter so...

  • I find it to be disengenious.

  • Never thought about it.


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Muzzy123

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Not saying people shouldn't compliment you. I stated (or at least I meant to say) the same person compliments you on the same thing every time they see you i.e. "I like those braids'" next time you see them: "you and Monica wear the best looking braids," next time you see them: "those braids look really good on you." I'm not saying different people compliment you, the same person compliments you everytime you see them. A Font said earlier that they may admire you and that sounds logical to me.

I see what you mean. What you’re referring to is just annoying.
 

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Now this is someone of the same xes and no they are not trying to hit on you. I notice the Housewives shows do it all the time. Like they always have to say something about someone's "physical" appearance.

What do you think about someone complimenting you EVERYTIME they see you??​


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Oh, mother dear, what should I do about all the compliments?
 

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You must be Black American because girl, Haitian people (and just Caribbean people in general) ALWAYS mention something about physical appearance (sometimes it's a compliment, sometimes it's an insult lmao). This is normal in certain cultures, lol.

But are we really complaining about compliments, though? Lol.
 

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Me and my coworkers gas each other up EVERY MORNING. :arrogant

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Even when they don't look their best "Girl, I see you out here, SHOWERING! Smelling like soap!"

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Me too! I know it's tough for some people to even get out of bed (I've been there) so I always compliment!
 

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I think it's an amazing gesture that should be practiced by all even if you dont think the person isn't cute or looks nice.
 

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At work, people normally compliment me all the time and as someone mentioned, I love to get my ego stroked lol. Especially if I'm feeling sh!tty.
 

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Me too! I know it's tough for some people to even get out of bed (I've been there) so I always compliment!

I've felt the same. I love this mini ritual of appreciation, kindness, silliness and general positivity.
 

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I don’t see the harm in it. I think they are just being nice to you.
 

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Now this is someone of the same xes and no they are not trying to hit on you. I notice the Housewives shows do it all the time. Like they always have to say something about someone's "physical" appearance.
They're definitely fake. On the rhobh reunion last year, Andy asked them about this. Kyle said she doesn't know why they do it, especially bc during filming they see each other almost daily lol. She admitted it looks fake and over the top when she sees the footage lol. I mean every time they see each other they have to fawn over everything from head to toe.
 

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There are times when I think it's disingenuous but that's maybe because I'm a naturally pessimistic person. I'm trying to work on that.

Overall though, it doesn't bother me. It's nice when women give compliments to eachother. When a woman gives me a compliment, I think it's sweet. I compliment other women often too and I genuinely mean it.

One of the best compliments I ever got actually was from another woman. I didn't even know her but she definitely made my day. She was black too.
 

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I am secure in myself and enjoying giving other women compliments. If i see you on the street and i like your hair, purse, or shoes, i will compliment you on them. I gas up my friends whenever we meet. I am happy, and radiate happiness.
 

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But why did I have this lil white girl ask her mom if she could come up to me and give me a hug and tell me I’m beautiful? Y’all that made my YEAR!!
 

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I have a friend who always compliments me when we first meet up. Every single time. Either my hair, my makeup, my purse, or some item of clothing. It doesn't BOTHER me, per se. But I do kind feel like I'm always getting a once over or my wardrobe is being analyzed. She'll even be like, "When did you get those shoes? I've never seen those!"
 

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There’s someone on my job that compliments me all the time, but I take it in stride b/c it’s true...lol.. I take no prisoners when it comes to my lewks...
 

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I have a friend who always compliments me when we first meet up. Every single time. Either my hair, my makeup, my purse, or some item of clothing. It doesn't BOTHER me, per se. But I do kind feel like I'm always getting a once over or my wardrobe is being analyzed. She'll even be like, "When did you get those shoes? I've never seen those!"
I have a friend who does the exact same thing.
 

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I always compliment my friends when I see them. I can find at least one good thing to say about just about anyone. It feels good to get and receive compliments. Nothing wrong with it.
 

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I don't mind if the person constantly makes a compliment. However, I once had a manager who would constantly make observations about my change in hairstyles, but never a compliment. Only a "I see you changed your hair" or something similar--never followed by a compliment. That was very weird and irritating. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.
 

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I think they wasting their time. I don't give a single fµck what they like about me. It doesn't do sh!t for me nor do I take it as a compliment. I don't like people so I damn sure don't wanna hear they sh!t.
 

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Could you expand
When I mean over complimenting I dont mean compliments that are things like oh your bracelet looks nice, your hair is styled cute today, I'm talking the over the top compliments all the time like "Wow, you are the most beautiful person I've seen" "omg you are sooo beautiful" like ALL the time. I think when people do things like that all the time it just seems insecure and it could be love bombing (a tactic for manipulation). Its not normal to be overly focused on someone's appearance to the point where you need to compliment or point it out all the time. After that it just comes across as insincere, disingenuous and a bit obsessive.

And I don't agree with complimenting all the time means that "you aren't jealous" some of the fonts on here sound like inexperienced little kids. There are many fake people out here that can compliment you even excessively and still be hating on the low.
 

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When I mean over complimenting I dont mean compliments that are things like oh your bracelet looks nice, your hair is styled cute today, I'm talking the over the top compliments all the time like "Wow, you are the most beautiful person I've seen" "omg you are sooo beautiful" like ALL the time. I think when people do things like that all the time it just seems insecure and it could be love bombing (a tactic for manipulation). Its not normal to be overly focused on someone's appearance to the point where you need to compliment or point it out all the time. After that it just comes across as insincere, disingenuous and a bit obsessive.

And I don't agree with complimenting all the time means that "you aren't jealous" some of the fonts on here sound like inexperienced little kids. There are many fake people out here that can compliment you even excessively and still be hating on the low.
Yeah I see what you mean usually my compliments are just me pointing out my observation sometimes I don’t mean to make it a compliment I used to like giving compliments till a girl told me not to do that
 

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I always compliment my friends when I see them. I can find at least one good thing to say about just about anyone. It feels good to get and receive compliments. Nothing wrong with it.
I do this to school aged children, I think they need it.
 

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You can feel the sincerity from a young person.
it was so moving. It made me wanna cry because it’s so honest and sincere. And it made also want to have a baby right then and there. I love kids.
 

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I don’t mind. I compliment people a lot and I’m not a liar or a hater. If you fine/clean or I’m generally impressed I’ll say that.

I’m definitely the friend who notices everything and won’t hesitate to gas you up if it’s warranted.
 

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Very kind people.

I go out of my way to throw compliments regularly.

I love receiving compliments, too, it makes my day. Sometimes we need affirmations, we are all human.
 

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I’m very complimentary but I never overdo it. I’m not an ass kisser. If you look good, have something that I like or performed well I’ll comment on it and make you feel good.
 

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I think it’s disingenuous. I have no problem giving compliments but I’m not giving them just because if I don’t genuinely like whatever it is you’re wearing/your hair style etc. I rather you be real with me too. I personally don’t need compliments every single time you see me either.
 

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