I definitely will!Keep us updated on how things turn out sis.
they just ask just to ask
Just to seem like they caring
someone would always ask me if I ate but never offered to buy me food
I hear you. No way this guy is as old as my dad though, must have had kids young but then again I don’t actually know his age yet.Just be prepared to give him what he wants.
I think it is way too early to be asking for big-ticket items.
Are you ok with dating your daddy, really?
This man has more experience and will have the upper hand in y'all relationship due to experience.
I will never advise you out of learning life lessons so go for it.
Sis, what airport was this? Did you stand in a particular area? What were you wearing? etc Asking for a friend!Hey ladies! So I recently met a man and he has been nothing but a gentleman. I met him at an airport and he owns several businesses and is clearly well-off. We've been texting for a little while now and this is the second time he's asked me "If I need anything." I'm not sure what he means by this question nor do I know if I should ask for anything. The first time he asked I said I'm good however I know that men need to feel like they are needed so I honestly would feel kind of awkward not inquiring or asking for something. Do you think he means money or something of the sort? He is older, divorced, has a child my age if that makes a difference. What should I ask him for? If we are being real I recently got a dent in my car that I want fixed, but idk if it's appropriate to ask him for something like that. I only met him a few weeks ago and when I got back into town a few days after meeting him he got his business driver to drive me back to my house from the airport...real classy, luxury car open the door type sh!ts.
Thanks for the input!
San Francisco international! We were both flying in from LA, idk if we were on the same flight or not but I'm already aware that the SF has some ballers lol.Sis, what airport was this? Did you stand in a particular area? What were you wearing? etc Asking for a friend!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!San Francisco international! We were both flying in from LA, idk if we were on the same flight or not but I'm already aware that the SF has some ballers lol.
And girl I was looking basic. Skinny jeans, sandals, sports jacked on, hair in a high bun. I looked pretty average but probably cute and dainty to him. I actually accidentally bumped into him and we were both looking to exist and we both ended up going the wrong way. Anyhow, he apologized, waited for me, then we walked and chatted together to baggage claim (though we both didn't have checked in bags) lol. Complete fluke!
Did you used to live in Vegas?San Francisco international! We were both flying in from LA, idk if we were on the same flight or not but I'm already aware that the SF has some ballers lol.
And girl I was looking basic. Skinny jeans, sandals, sports jacked on, hair in a high bun. I looked pretty average but probably cute and dainty to him. I actually accidentally bumped into him and we were both looking to exist and we both ended up going the wrong way. Anyhow, he apologized, waited for me, then we walked and chatted together to baggage claim (though we both didn't have checked in bags) lol. Complete fluke!
Did you used to live in Vegas?
Random lol pay it no mindlol no
UPDATE: Earlier in the day he texted me asking foe my email. So right now he just texted me saying that he sent over the estimate and that this place works on a lot of luxury cars and he “trusts” them. He then said “your call though.” FYI the estimate is almost double what a friend said he would do the job for, but I’m sure this place will fix the dent to perfection with factory parts but still..kind of sounds like he expects me to pay.
*b!tch I THOUGHT! Lol
Anyways, anything I can say or do to save this situation?
I agree I’d just ask him what he means. Or even before he asks again mention the rent and how it’s kinda stressing you out. If he’s offering to help you financially he’ll ask follow up questions and ask what he could do to help etcWhy don't you just ask him?
Thanks! I think an open ended approach would be best. As of now I simply told him I’d take a look at it when I got home.You should tell him that while you trust they would do great work, and you’d prefer that, it’s more than you anticipated. But thank him for checking. I would leave it kind of open-ended and not mention your friend who could do it. It gives him a slight crack to offer to help.
At least that’s how I’d handle it; but other ladies may have better advice.
Ask him!
I be like yeah I need my hair laid bills paid you down?