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Has anyone successfully dated an older guy??? It seems like I attract alot of older men.I'm 24 but I have a baby face. I don't think I can date a older man. I remember one time my friend gave this older guy my number. He was like 10 yrs older than me. I was 20 atthe time and he was 30. The moment he had told him he had a tear drop on his face Iwas like "Oh no!" He ended up hanging up on me because he said I would find a man when I went to college. Smh. So I chalked him up. This one older guy has been at me every since the summer. If I was going to try to establish something he turned me off asking can I get him something from the store. ***** you do it. You're just one house down. Wtf!
 

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I found older men to controlling and annoying.

I like my menz my age or younger.
 

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I attract older men and the times I dated men 10+ years older than me were disastrous in the end.
 

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One instance was positive, while the other was obviously a power trip and novelty for him
 

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I'm 22 and only attracted to much older men. 😱
 

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baby ass ****** masquerading as grown ass ****** :flipa:
 

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I've only had terrible experiences, but maybe it's just me
I've dated 2 men who were both 9/10 years older than me and they both were very slick, cunning and basically I wasn't ready for it.
They both chased me like crazy, came off as very understanding and patient in the beginning (like most 'older' men supposed to be) and once I trusted them and got hooked they slowly turned into spawns of satan.
 

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I've never dated anyone older, but this older(waaaaay) older man at church tried to talk to me. The dude was legit at least 60, he looked older than my own father. This situation was about a year ago was about 20 or 21. He was some visiting minister, so when he came up to talk to me I just thought he was trying to say hi, because he knew I am a minister's daughter.

Anyway, he started asking me about what I did. I told him that I was a student, who went to school in another city.(I was home during a break) Then he was like " do you want to stay in contact?", and I this time I still didn't know that he was trying to "holla", I just thought that he wanted to give me some bible scriptures or something. I didn't expect a 60+ would try to date someone who is young enough to be his granddaughter, especially right after church. I really didn't want to keep in contact, so I just gave him a fake email. Then he was like "well I don't have a computer, how about we exchange numbers?" I'm like in my head "that's your mf problem", so I just scribbled something down because I didn't want to be rude to the preacher. Luckily, my dad came up to ask me something, and the creepy old dude realized that the guy talking to me was my dad. So once he realized this, the minister was like " well sir you have a lovely family" and left. It didn't dawn on me until after the fact that he was trying to "holla". I felt so violated, and bit a of a dumb-ass.



I was at McDonalds, and this older white dude(like 50's) was smiling at me. I just half smiled back, got my iced coffee and went about my business.


I caught another older white guy(probably about 30's-40's), checking me out from a distance at the student bookstore. I didn't get a good look at him, but from what I saw he wasn't that bad looking.
 

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How much older are you talking? I'm 22 and I have always liked older men. I don't even date men my age... that's just how I am. The oldest man I briefly dated was in his early 40s smh. Never again. I will say that he treated me VERY well in the beginning. I never had to ask for anything, and I never had a guy treat me the way he did. But he ended up being crazy and a very twisted person. I will say that older men aren't all that different from the younger ones...they are just more slick about their sh!t. The oldest I would date now is like 10-12 years older than me.
 

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I was turned out at 17 by one, he was 35, married, six pack. I'm going to say this, my sheets just never ever felt clean when I was 12th grade. That man, chile!!!!!!!!
 

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I was turned out at 17 by one, he was 35, married, six pack. I'm going to say this, my sheets just never ever felt clean when I was 12th grade. That man, chile!!!!!!!!

YES. that's why I got a soft spot for older men. the THINGS they do and HOW they do it.. hmmmhm
 

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They always tired. Lol!

Not the one I'm getting to know now in his 40s.

My ex old ass was always at home, sulking or sleeping but not this one.

I have a bad habit of saying "old ass ****** in their 40s trying to act like Jay-Z" and he gets offended, I be like, "Not you bae, I meant them ole ass thug ******!"

He is so insecure about his age, it turns me off. :blindfold:
 

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I was turned out at 17 by one, he was 35, married, six pack. I'm going to say this, my sheets just never ever felt clean when I was 12th grade. That man, chile!!!!!!!!

Damn! My parents would have murked his ass! I could see 21, 23 even since you were almost legal!

WTF?! Old ****** like adult teen barely legal cooter so much its scary.
 

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If he is 6+ yrs older than you which in my case would land him in this early thirties and he is still single [no matter his accomplishments i.e. his degrees] he's no item. My mother always says, "There is a reason why none of the women his age wanted him." The good ones are rarely unattached by that age.


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I was turned out at 17 by one, he was 35, married, six pack. I'm going to say this, my sheets just never ever felt clean when I was 12th grade. That man, chile!!!!!!!!

Turned out isn't the word many a mental health professionals would use to describe what happened to you.
 

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Those of you saying they behaved slick and twisted, can you go into specifics? What did you do exactly?
 
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I don't trust older men who stay chasing young women or men
it's weird and creepy. I notice a lot of them go after women who look younger than their age too. Like the petite and round faced ladies
 

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Older men can be just as immature as guys your age or younger. Often older men take to younger women because they are more easier to manipulate and him asking you for something from the store was just a test
 

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I did and he played just as many games as a young dude except more sophisticatedly.
 

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I don't trust older men who stay chasing young women or menit's weird and creepy. I notice a lot of them go after women who look younger than their age too. Like the petite and round faced ladies
Crazy that you said that. I have a round face. Stand 5'5 and weigh like 140. If that.
 

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How many times is this topic going to be done? If you like old balls, then go get it. It's not hard to find.
 
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If he is 6+ yrs older than you which in my case would land him in this early thirties and he is still single [no matter his accomplishments i.e. his degrees] he's no item. My mother always says, "There is a reason why none of the women his age wanted him." The good ones are rarely unattached by that age.


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This is true.....most of the time there is something very wrong. But I do think there are some who are just genuinely have not found anyone or have focused their attention on other aspects of life. I dated an older man last year, it was a 9 year difference, and while he was very respectful, sophisticated, and traditional dating-wise, he ended up being kind of controlling and I got the sense he was manipulative as well. I couldn't do it. It didn't get past the beginning dating stages for those reasons.
 

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Older men can be just as immature as guys your age or younger. Often older men take to younger women because they are more easier to manipulate and him asking you for something from the store was just a test
Yeah. Well I didn't say anything. I just kept walking. I think he could've just wanted me to come over there too.
 

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I always wished I could have slept with an older man at 15 or 16 years old. Nothing like that ever happened to me. No older man paid me any mind! I do get jealous of women who had that experience or teens who are currently experiencing it now. Im in my 20s but its not the same being with an older man when you are barely legal. The thrill and excitement of doing something so wrong is enticing
 

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Damn! My parents would have murked his ass! I could see 21, 23 even since you were almost legal!

WTF?! Old ****** like adult teen barely legal cooter so much its scary.

Turned out isn't the word many a mental health professionals would use to describe what happened to you.

Yeah that's not a good look, she was taken advantage of by a grown ass married man.
 

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Damn! My parents would have murked his ass! I could see 21, 23 even since you were almost legal!

WTF?! Old ****** like adult teen barely legal cooter so much its scary.

I was 5'3, 120 pounds. I wore a 34 DDD. Sure I probably giggled a bit more than his wife, but we actually had good times. My parents weren't exactly thrilled, when they actually found out, but I mean it is what it was. I'm 26 now, and my current b/f is in his 50's. Safe to say I have a complex. Peep my location.
 

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a lot of them are just older versions of their younger, immature self. Even the "good ones" want the upper hand.
 
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I was 5'3, 120 pounds. I wore a 34 DDD. Sure I probably giggled a bit more than his wife, but we actually had good times. My parents weren't exactly thrilled, when they actually found out, but I mean it is what it was. I'm 26 now, and my current b/f is in his 50's. Safe to say I have a complex. Peep my location.

Azaelia banks is that you boo?
 

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Older men always come at me for some reason. One of the reason I liked my ex so much was because he was my age, only two months older. Before, him the guy were always 3 to 6 years old. One time I dated this older guy because he wore me down. Looking bad on it, I get disgusted. I don’t want a guy younger than me but I don’t want anyone significantly older. If I could find someone my age like my ex that would be good. However, guys around my age don’t know how to put in any effort.
 

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Those of you saying they behaved slick and twisted, can you go into specifics? What did you do exactly?

He was weird & crazy. Not only that, he was a LIAR & a con-artist. The man made up some of the most bizarre stories I have ever heard. He gave me sociopath vibes basically. I should have never even gotten involved with him in the first place, but I was very young & naive so I liked the attention and how he treated me at first. But when I finally opened my eyes, I realized how messed up he was as a person. I am so glad I ran from him when I got the chance. Oh... and he stole from me.
 

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We just had a situation here in Philly where a 64yr Old Yes 65yr Old shot his 36yr Old girlfriend!

And in Orlando at the Melbourne Square Mall a 57yr old shoot and killed his 33yr old girlfriend.
 

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