I've never really understood what people mean when they tell someone (particularly women) that they need to put effort into their appearance. Do they mean that they should wear makeup or fancy clothes? Can women not be pretty wearing jeans or sweats and no makeup? Or does it depend on the person? Or does it just mean you look clean?
I'm a stereotypically female looking person and I've never worn makeup before. I've never even owned makeup before. I've always just liked my face the way it is. I don't want to wear makeup. I also wear jeans and t-shirts most of the time. I do have and wear other clothes and I like jewelry and accessories, but I don't understand why I can't be concerned looking nice if I'm wearing regular clothes.
It just doesn't make sense to me. How much effort is a person supposed to use?
I'm a stereotypically female looking person and I've never worn makeup before. I've never even owned makeup before. I've always just liked my face the way it is. I don't want to wear makeup. I also wear jeans and t-shirts most of the time. I do have and wear other clothes and I like jewelry and accessories, but I don't understand why I can't be concerned looking nice if I'm wearing regular clothes.
It just doesn't make sense to me. How much effort is a person supposed to use?