When he says friends with benefits?

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It's better to just say no or don't respond. For men, FWB is just them getting pussy and nothing else at their convenience with no obligations so they won't be responsible for your feelings. They don't say it. But that's it is tbh.
 
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Ask him "What benefits are there? How do I benefit?"

Then listen to what he says and make your judgment from there

Why do you need to listen to further from his ninjas lips when the these words roll from his lips "he-says-friends-with-benefits" ?


There is nothing else left to be said you either want that or you dont. You are just there for his pleasure and for sex that is it .
 
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I like to just say "we not even friends tho.."

Seriously though, I've never heard of these "unions" involving anything but watching TV at his/her home followed by sex. How is that being friends? And what are the tangible benefits... ya know, besides being pumped by a man who doesn't see you as worthy of a relationship with him?

Like, I never see fonts in Jane Doe Alley saying they're hanging out with a group, going places, meeting each others friends and family, traveling, etc. with these dudes. That's what people actually do with their friends. It's always just 90% them screwing the guy and maybe talking/ texting when he's bored.

That's charity sex work, TBH. And I don't understand after months and months (1) how a woman could delude herself into thinking he will change his mind just from cheap, easy sex (2) why a woman would even want a relationship after all that? Unless the man is a damn multi-millionaire funding your entire life, why would it be worth accepting a "I guess you'll do" relationship?
 
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So y'all are getting FWB'd by force or what? Why are you negotiating with a fuck buddy? If that's not what you want then why are you having that conversation with him in the first place? Do you want him or something? Nobody's forcing you to have a fuck buddy if that's not what you want. If you want to negotiate terms and conditions of a relationship go and find a man who will do all that. Your FWB is not your man lmfao.
 
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Why do you need to listen to further from his ninjas lips when the these words roll from his lips "he-says-friends-with-benefits" ?


There is nothing else left to be said you either want that or you dont. You are just there for his pleasure and for sex that is it .
Yeah I know but like to hear it out of the horse's mouth. The way they stumble over their words making up shitty reasons is laughable
 
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Seriously though, I've never heard of these "unions" involving anything but watching TV at his/her home followed by sex. How is that being friends? And what are the tangible benefits... ya know, besides being pumped by a man who doesn't see you as worthy of a relationship with him?

Like, I never see fonts in Jane Doe Alley saying they're hanging out with a group, going places, meeting each others friends and family, traveling, etc. with these dudes. That's what people actually do with their friends. It's always just 90% them screwing the guy and maybe talking/ texting when he's bored.

That's charity sex work, TBH. And I don't understand after months and months (1) how a woman could delude herself into thinking he will change his mind just from cheap, easy sex (2) why a woman would even want a relationship after all that? Unless the man is a damn multi-millionaire funding your entire life, why would it be worth accepting a "I guess you'll do" relationship?
And since sex feels better with feelings, some FWBs do go on "dates" or they bring them around the family but it doesn't mean he's not looking for an actual gf.

My experience, most men who put you in the FWB category is because they are either trying to win their ex back and don't wanna be alone or there's another girl they actually have feelings for but they're waiting around for them. A lot of the problems is that the woman actually likes the guy but don't know he likes or his heart is elsewhere so they do FWB hoping he changes his mind and he doesn't.
 

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