They say fwb or vibing ... I have seen some ask.. Then they get blocked because one should know what it isDo people even say friends with benefits or do you just become one because you want to get laid, or you’re longing for companionship or you’re just a dummy?
Yeah I know but like to hear it out of the horse's mouth. The way they stumble over their words making up shitty reasons is laughableWhy do you need to listen to further from his ninjas lips when the these words roll from his lips "he-says-friends-with-benefits" ?
There is nothing else left to be said you either want that or you dont. You are just there for his pleasure and for sex that is it .
And since sex feels better with feelings, some FWBs do go on "dates" or they bring them around the family but it doesn't mean he's not looking for an actual gf.Seriously though, I've never heard of these "unions" involving anything but watching TV at his/her home followed by sex. How is that being friends? And what are the tangible benefits... ya know, besides being pumped by a man who doesn't see you as worthy of a relationship with him?
Like, I never see fonts in Jane Doe Alley saying they're hanging out with a group, going places, meeting each others friends and family, traveling, etc. with these dudes. That's what people actually do with their friends. It's always just 90% them screwing the guy and maybe talking/ texting when he's bored.
That's charity sex work, TBH. And I don't understand after months and months (1) how a woman could delude herself into thinking he will change his mind just from cheap, easy sex (2) why a woman would even want a relationship after all that? Unless the man is a damn multi-millionaire funding your entire life, why would it be worth accepting a "I guess you'll do" relationship?