On_da_Corna
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Who blamed everything on bw?What about the font in here blaming everything on black women- do you have any words for him?
Who blamed everything on bw?What about the font in here blaming everything on black women- do you have any words for him?
That's my issue also. I don't care who you choose to date but don't bash black men bc you choose to date others. It makes you seem bitter bc black men paid you dust and now you're delegated to dating whites or others. I only date black men but I don't go around bashing whites.
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Who blamed everything on bw?
There's a hell of a lot of self-hating bw. Where do you think self-hating bm learn their self-hate from?
I don't know who you are referring to. Quote his posts if you would like my opinion and expertise on the subject. Is he bashing black women like some of you are bashing black men? If yes then he's as much of a self hater and bitter as y'all are. Anyone who bashes their own race in order to lift up another race has obvious issues.What about the font in here blaming everything on black women- do you have any words for him?
Oh, you like being melodramatic. ok. Since we're playing that game then you and other are blaming bm for everything.You just blamed black women for black men having self hate issues.
I'm black and this is well known. Good dayAre you white? Your last sentence certainly implies so, and if that's the case, this thread is none of your concern, especially one where I'm going to continue speaking to you about this.
What about them? It's a known fact that male children don't listen to their mothers because they're women after a certain age, so try again.
People like this are usually dating IR out of spite or they feel like they have no other options.
Talk about not seeing the big picture.
The reason white men wanted their illegitimate children to follow the condition of the mother was because 1) it maximized their profits by ensuring that they didn't have to buy more or future slaves and 2) that so many white male slave owners were having affairs with black women because they OWNED them as PROPERTY, and PROPERTY had no rights. The disassociation with black women is certainly secondary, but was never a primary reason behind turning society into a matriarchy when slavery was in full force. But that's not important, because even in slavery, there were legitimate interracial relationships, which usually resulted in them being outcasts of society, and there were certainly instances where those relationships resulted in the freedom of the mother and children.
Black women's loyalty NOW has nothing to do with slavery or white men, and everything to do with common sense! When black men are getting shot down in the streets by this police state, I certainly don't see the Taye Diggs types fighting for the cause, however, I see black women. If I had my rathers, no black woman would be boycotting and fighting for black men because we/they should allow the white women you covet to do it. In every post you spew, you never fail to throw black women under the bus with your bµllsh!t in an attempt to elevate black men. The funny thing about that is that during slavery and beyond, no matter what group of women black men were with, they were and still aren't considered real men. Let that marinate in that little pea brain of yours.
There is no such thing. It's a compromise that at no point in time ever had anything to do with quantifying a black person's humanity. The Three Fifths clause's sole purpose was to determine state representation in Congress as well as the state's federal taxation obligations.
Do they not get self hatred curse from their mother?
I mean I look at black single mothers on social media and can see why these kids grow up to be fµcked up adults.
Well, perhaps it's genetic since their daddies obviously wasn't sh!t either. Why are you blaming the parent that stayed?
But why do these women choose to sleep with these men of that ain't sh!t?
Because she chose to bring the child into a fµcked up predicament.
Millions of black children have been abused and neglected by their mother's
BW are loyal? yeah that's a lie. Don't believe the numbers, The reason why BM are able to date out more than BW is because very few men from other races actually want to date BW. Like some of the few fonts explained at the beginning of this thread, BW are considered the least attractive and unfortunately to this physical aspect come the attitude problem that most BW keep denying is an issue.
This is only somewhat true. The legislation to tie slavery to the mother is tied to a case in the 1650's where a woman who claimed she was a "mulatto" went to court to petition for her freedom under the grounds that since her father was free and white, she was free also. She actually won the case too, not bad for a piece of property with no rights. I hope my toilet never takes me to court.
This however, is false. I don't see how anything I said elevates black men either, and your ferver to associate me with white woman loving and black women hating is hilarious. And yes, racism does prevent black people in general from being seen a real human beings. How astute of you to notice that and notice me though. I think it's interesting that you contrasted a specific segment of black men with black women in general also, and I suppose I should be thankful that nobody really gives a sh!t about your rathers.
This is true. Not sure what I was thinking on that one. No more posting for me at 4AM after a bender. Thank you for the correction.
Humans are hypocrites but I ve noticed a difference between the way black men and black women react to this issue.
BW are a lot more hurt by this situation than BM, but at the same time if a BM come to them and explain why they rather date a WW than a BW they won't listen, they will be offended, they will feel like the BM is bashing BW and will blame the BM choice on white supremacy, self hate etc..( like the response on this thread have proven)
I have never seen a BM do that. A BM will tell you how it is straight up, he will tell you how he really feel, he s not gonna try to up himself, but a BW will tell you how amazing she is, how impossible it is for a BM to want something els, how loyal she is. How she doesn't point out his flaws ( "degrade her", "bash BW") like BM do. How BM always date down when they choose to date outside, but what BW don't realize is that this FAT WW w/o a job probably treat him better than the size 6, CEO BW he used to date.
BW are loyal? yeah that's a lie. Don't believe the numbers, The reason why BM are able to date out more than BW is because very few men from other races actually want to date BW. Like some of the few fonts explained at the beginning of this thread, BW are considered the least attractive and unfortunately to this physical aspect come the attitude problem that most BW keep denying is an issue.
Do they not get self hatred curse from their mother?
I mean I look at black single mothers on social media and can see why these kids grow up to be fµcked up adults.
Your comment made me think that that's true and it starts from childhood. The princes in the childhood movies are majority white and they still haven't had a black male. Most teen idols are white. There are hardly any black male xes symbols. I think maybe Denzel was the only universal one with the People's Sexiest Man Alive. Otherwise, white males are always on top. There was that latest UK list with hardly any black males on it, they had lower placement, and instead that ugly Benedict guy was on it. To them only a white male can pull off Bond and someone like Idris can't. Bond is very much a sexy masculine symbol. The general public is not going to see someone like him as more attractive than whoever is the hot white guy of the moment like say Chris Hemsworth.White men are also considered the standard though, especially in terms of socio-economic power, the metric men are judged on more than 'beauty'. Being considered beautiful doesn't really benefit white women in terms of whiteness, even if it disadvantages women of color, seeing how most of the environments white women live in aren't really threatened(economically, socially, etc.) by minorities.
Its not just Black men that think this though. A lot of Black women have racial pride, but they look at that racial pride through the lens of Black men because thats the way we've been trained. So often many of us slant towards favoring things opposite. Its why you'll see a lot more shaming of BW who date/marry out by other BW, than you'll eeeeever see of BM shaming other BM for dating/marrying out.
Black women who are really attractive do not have a problem attracting men of all races who want to date them on a serious level. Really attractive black women can get married to whoever they want if they plan accordingly and leave the low hanging fruit alone.
Being "really attractive" is only one factor in finding AND KEEPING a marriage partner. Timing, demographics, location, lifestyle, mental/emotional health and personal standards all factor into the equation.
There have been way too many relationship failures among the Hollywood/modelling ranks to believe otherwise.
And like I said if a woman yes even a black woman is really attractive, if she is smart and plans accordingly life will work for her to her will not the other way around.
Through age and life experience you learn which friends, which men and just people in general to be around and which men to avoid. You look at demographics at places that increase your exposure to those men. You develop skills and interests so you can hang out with the "big boys" so to speak.
So you don't see the absent parent as a problem, just the single women who obviously created them through asexual means? Could it be that the child is looking at the absent parent and thinking, "well, if my mom wasn't good enough for my father to have stayed, why should I value my own racial counterpart?"
And what of the single white mothers who are being left by black male fathers that grow up with identity issues? Let me guess, the white mothers are also to blame.
Your comment made me think that that's true and it starts from childhood. The princes in the childhood movies are majority white and they still haven't had a black male. Most teen idols are white. There are hardly any black male xes symbols. I think maybe Denzel was the only universal one with the People's Sexiest Man Alive. Otherwise, white males are always on top. There was that latest UK list with hardly any black males on it, they had lower placement, and instead that ugly Benedict guy was on it. To them only a white male can pull off Bond and someone like Idris can't. Bond is very much a sexy masculine symbol. The general public is not going to see someone like him as more attractive than whoever is the hot white guy of the moment like say Chris Hemsworth.
Granted it's the same for black females but that was already addressed. I've seen a comparable hot list where someone like Beyonce was on there clearly so it wouldn't come off racist.
what hate?I disagree with this. I feel like if anything, Black women are becoming more desensitized to the notion of Black men (specifically famous Black men) with non-Black women. It's almost an expectation. When there's a thread posted of a famous Black man with his non-Black partner on here, most responses are like: "of course, here we go again, i figured he'd have a becky, what a new black, he wasn't that fine anyway, next."
It happens so much, it's not that surprising anymore. Black men on the otherhand get pissed because they think they should be the only option for Black women. Look at all the hate Rihanna has been getting for the mere possibility that she might be with Leonardo DiCaprio. Black men have been calling her all types of whores and negro ********.
It is still popular enough to have white people foaming at the mouth at the possibility of Idris playing him. It will always be an iconic role.1.James bond is a played out franchise and I do not want to see idris play into such a stale brand.
2.I would rather see him in a Luther movie
3.Well duh since whites outnumber us
... umm but Kerry married an educated man.... you see this is why I cant stand some of you. Yes income does matter but Kerry married a man that has an academic background and can do something with it. Plus the guy that she married is not in the same career field as her."TBH plenty if not most of black female celebs date downwards status and income-wise when they're with black men and are the main breadwinners:
Kelly Rowland, Ciara, Kerry Washington- just to name a few."
I agree. Unfortunately, marrying "down" is common among BW, but no one notices unless the man is non-black.
It is still popular enough to have white people foaming at the mouth at the possibility of Idris playing him. It will always be an iconic role.
Plus, it would be great for Idris' career. He's not on Will Smith status. In the commercials for action movies I've seen him in he is secondary to white male characters not the lead. Bond would also grant him to a bigger audience than before. Even Will did not get an equivalent franchise. He had Bad Boys but his character never became an iconic xes symbol. It had more comedic value than anything else.
But it's not surprising that Hollywood doesn't give these roles that they repeatedly give to white males considering the Sony emails exposed them. They wondered if they could sell Denzel to an international audience. Denzel is an established Oscar winning actor with hits under his belt. I see no reason why they should question Denzel but they found a reason-he's black. I can only imagine how much of a risk they think barely successful actors such as Idris or Chadwick are.
how can Black men learn their self hate from other men when allegedly there are a lack of fathers in Black households?No not really majority of black women are with black men and are less likely to date out. Also more likely to be part of black culture...
Black men learn their self hate from other black men. Men influence each other.
He was the lead in a popular gripping crime drama called Luther, look it up.
Idris is already in his prime and has his own status and platform.
Yeah he could play the role but I'd rather see such talented actors take on original roles and set a much bigger pace that default Hollywood actors cannot fill.
I want to see idris play his character Luther on the big screen and trump over James bond.
how can Black men learn their self hate from other men when allegedly there are a lack of fathers in Black households?
Lets be real they learn it from their Mom's and turn around and spread their self hate to unassuming Black women who werent even asking for the nonsense.
how can Black men learn their self hate from other men when allegedly there are a lack of fathers in Black households?
Lets be real they learn it from their Mom's and turn around and spread their self hate to unassuming Black women who werent even asking for the nonsense.
I've seen Luther but that is a tv show. It also had a limited audience with the main one being the UK. Hollywood is not going to see it as a Bond level film. Plus, he's an investigator so it wouldn't be the same type of film. They'd be much more likely to compare it to another iconic figure Sherlock. But still a comparison can be made there. For some inexplicable reason Benedict became a huge xes symbol in the UK over Idris.
ETA: I do believe that Benedict's show Sherlock was more popular than Luther.
According to this article Fox plans to remake Luther for the US but they're skeptical about how successful it will be.
http://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-r...nov/18/luther-succeed-where-gracepoint-failed
@Sang_bleu, You just have to love it when people blame the father as an afterthought. "The father is just as bad BUT...."
There are more articles, movies, and website threads, hell even more YouTube channels, that consistently and frequently disparage single mothers and not absent fathers, but in your world, no one judges the mothers.
I take it that the men these instagram single mothers sleep with have no control over their own bodies, or had no forethought to not make these types of women mothers by wearing protection or abstaining?Does he not know that he doesn't make enough for child support that his failure to provide for the child ALSO places them in an unstable environment? You can't have it both ways sir: you can't place men in adult situations and then want them to be treated as children.
You do not need Hollywood's approval to make a good film.
Yes James bond has the brand but the modern films are mediocre
Majority of the UK is white so it is no surprise
An american remake is just ********, I do not see why an American audience would struggle to watch the original.
It is an old saying that if people keep talking they'll eventually reveal themselves, and you've demonstrated your disdain for black women with that line far better than I could ever point out.
I don't find it amusing to equate a mulatto woman, or any slave, suing for her freedom with your toilet doing so today, but since you brought up that case, I see that you cavalierly left out that at the time that she sued, white was synonymous with Christian and being civilized, so her suing for being mulatto was because she was trying to prove that being part white and belonging to a white Christian father, she was too civilized for slavery.
If you know anything about colonial laws, then you know that they were skewed to favor white landowning men, to the point that women were penalized for the births of illegitimate children while the white father as absolved of any responsibility. And having mulatto children follow the condition of the mother ensured several things: 1) that the labor force reproduced itself by placing him in the context of breeder, 2) that ensured that they had total control of both black women AND men as well as white women, and 3) created no threat to his economic and/or social status.
And yes, you should be glad, however not for long. Many black women are waking up to your bµllsh!t and will no longer serve as the obedient lap dogs you're used to.