Why are women 25-32 mostly the one's on the "I'm celibate" wave.

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous sex and bad judgement
 
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Too many fuck boys fucking with your emotional and mental development. Hookup culture is damaging to your self esteem. Many women want to prevent getting hurt. I am 23 and I want to be celibate until I find someone worthy of being with me.
 
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Because that's the age group in which many are pressured to choose if they want to birth kids/ start a family or be a bachelorette for the rest of their life... You have to start filtering out bums, losers, cheaters and what better way to do it than being celibate
 
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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.


Why is that?
Probably because they've had sex and been underwhelmed with the experiences and the men so they want to stop. Who cares though. It's their choice ultimately.
 
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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous sex and bad judgement
Because it makes sense? As you get older you realize having sex just to have it and risking your health and unwanted pregnancies in the process just isn't worth it anymore. I've been 'celibate' for a couple of years now and plan on staying that way until I meet the man I'm going to marry.
 
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Literally the type of energy the OP always give off in his threads
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Alot of women become celibate because they want to avoid time wasters and maybe meet men who are more serious alot of women don't get orgasms from just hookups so it's no point
 
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My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous sex and bad judgement
Idk why men (black men especially) like to run with this narrative that’s loud and wrong. I guarantee most of the women up here who are celibate weren’t as promiscuous as you like to think to begin with. Especially since most of them are shaming other women for having sex outside of relationships anyway.

Most of the women I know who follow this celibacy route have never been promiscuous to begin with and tend to follow a somewhat traditional conservative route.
Most BW are inherently traditional and conservative without noticing.
some by choice and some due to programming and patriarchy.
 
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Idk why men (black men especially) like to run with this narrative that’s loud and wrong. I guarantee most of the women up here who are celibate weren’t as promiscuous as you like to think to begin with. Especially since most of them are shaming other women for having sex outside of relationships anyway.

Most of the women I know who follow this celibacy route have never been promiscuous to begin with and tend to follow a somewhat traditional conservative route.
Most BM are inherent traditional and conservative without noticing.
some by choice and some due to programming and patriarchy.



Women have not been getting shamed for sex outside of a relationship in the last 20 years.
 
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Too many fuck boys fucking with your emotional and mental development. Hookup culture is damaging to your self esteem. Many women want to prevent getting hurt. I am 23 and I want to be celibate until I find someone worthy of being with me.
You're entirely right. It's sad that the current Western dating culture is so fucked up that what you're calling "being celibate" until meeting the right man is just living without fucking around and self-harming with dick. :pensive:
 
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The quality of men has gone down. Its best to preserve yourself and be selective about who you choose to have intercourse with..

Who wants a soul tie ? Its alot of work to undo them too, no one has time for that.
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Women who want a serious or long term relationship leading to marriage usually becomes celibate.

All the F-boys disappear because they can't get any free sex. They will ghost, which is fine because she won't catch feelings. Watch them disappear and be inconsistent without having sex with the woman. She'll get over him easily.

The men who interested will continue to date her and he will likely wait a bit longer to have sex with her.

She'll be happier with her choice of celibacy in the end.
 

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