Why are women 25-32 mostly the one's on the "I'm celibate" wave.

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I love the unspoken policy that men on LSA shall be groaned for simply breathing in our virtual space.

Moving on... Your perception is trash and wrong. Why even make any assumption at all if you are truly interested in hearing women's perspectives?

I've never had sex. Why should I share my body with a lowly man? I have seen and dealt with enough emotional pain, I don't need the added soul tie of a sexual relationship with these dudes to cement the lesson.
 
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Do you really believe that most black men under 35 look sideways at black women that have sex out of relationships at all? I honestly don't believe that. Now if you said black men shame women with a high body count then that is debatable.
YOU might not do that but a lot of your fellow brothers do. Where do you think the idea of women having extremely small & limited body count came from? Thin air??

In 2021 there are still grown ass women in their late 20’s and 30’s bragging about having a body count that they can count on one hand. Like it’s a badge of honor. Where do you think that standard came from?? It definitely wasn’t us.
 
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And then you get some new dick and the past is forgotten
Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.
 
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this is the first generation of men who have grown up with easy access to porn, i dont think men care about relationships anymore. they want multiple girlfriends they can sleep with and he will expect each gf to do wifey things like cooking/cleaning, he will want to sleep around but he'll get upset if any of his gf sleep with another man
 
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They gave the kitty away to bums and now want good men to pay the price


Gotta love how the "good men" feel entitled to the cooch.

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The same men that will judge her for giving it up too early ( for his undisclosed taste) but gladly take it while compartmentalizing their relationship into something unfavorable for her?

Life is filled with double standards.

a key that opens many locks is a master key

a lock that is opened by any key is a shitty lock

Gotta love how the "good men" feel entitled to the cooch.

Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around
 
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this is the first generation of men who have grown up with easy access to porn, i dont think men care about relationships anymore. they want multiple girlfriends they can sleep with and he will expect each gf to do wifey things like cooking/cleaning, he will want to sleep around but he'll get upset if any of his gf sleep with another man

This is the take. Dudes will bring up kinks and coming over within like the third message, and then shame you if you don't want to sleep with them.

And if you do sleep with a guy and get rxped, pregnant, have unfulfilling sex or get played in any other way, the same dudes will tell you to choose better next time.

Best just to skip over the ultimately wack dxck entirely until you know who you're choosing.
 
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Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around

"Inflated" by the mofos who are dying for it. Mofos got whole movements because they aren't getting any.

Don't fool yourself, though. Nothing on earth is cheaper than dick. Except maybe for air.
 
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Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.



That you for keeping it real.
 
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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous sex and bad judgement

Making the good guy pay for their poor choices in men. They are also oblivious to their diminishing value, so using celibacy as a bargaining chip will not get the desired outcome (relationship).
 
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Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.
Married dick be the best and you don’t have to commit to them. I think women need to be a little more selfish in relationships and start getting what you want
 
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Life is filled with double standards.

a key that opens many locks is a master key

a lock that is opened by any key is a sh

*So, "yes" then? Some have figured that part of men out. They don't have to keep being oblivious to suit someone else's needs - someone who probably is mad they have to settle for what she requires because they know they can't get it while being honest about their intent.

Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around
Then celibate women pose no problem for men who don't want to entertain it. They self select out - it's great for all involved...unless people feel they don't have a choice but to settle.
 
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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous sex and bad judgement
Correct
 
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I am unable to speak on behalf of others, but personally, I have been happily celibate for 3 years and counting. There was no "hoe phase" that happened prior to making my decision to become celibate. Being celibate has enabled me to grow as a person. I have graduated college with 2 bachelor's degrees in less than 4 years, purchased a new car, moved into a bigger place, cultivated fulfilling activities (yoga, running, reading, cooking, etc.), amongst many other things. My decision was based on my desire to become a well-rounded, whole, and happy person. Men were not and are not the reason for my celibacy journey.
 
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We're tired of the bullshit men in our generation who play games. So the best thing is to not play the game with y'all at all. We're proud too because we start to see your true colors and intentions when we are celibate. Salt N Pepa said it best V
 
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Because it's the age range where men are at their most ain't shit. Old enough to know better, and still too young and optimistic to realize men rarely get better.
 
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Then celibate women pose no problem for men who don't want to entertain it. They self select out - it's great for all involved...unless people feel they don't have a choice but to settle.
This only works if when they choose to break their celebacy, they don't make the new man pay for the old man's price
 
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I felt a slight attack lol... at 25 i became celibate and its been 5 years now. Don’t get me wrong, sex is great... for the few times i’ve had it....Temporary relation/situationships wasn’t cutting it for me to introduce phat ma anymore
 

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