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Why are women 25-32 mostly the one's on the "I'm celibate" wave.

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement
 
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Too many fµck boys fµck!ng with your emotional and mental development. Hookup culture is damaging to your self esteem. Many women want to prevent getting hurt. I am 23 and I want to be celibate until I find someone worthy of being with me.
 

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Because that's the age group in which many are pressured to choose if they want to birth kids/ start a family or be a bachelorette for the rest of their life... You have to start filtering out bums, losers, cheaters and what better way to do it than being celibate
 
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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.


Why is that?
Probably because they've had xes and been underwhelmed with the experiences and the men so they want to stop. Who cares though. It's their choice ultimately.
 

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Too many fµck boys fµck!ng with your emotional and mental development. Hookup culture is damaging to your self esteem. Many women want to prevent getting hurt. I am 23 and I want to be celibate until I find someone worthy of being with me.

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Because most men are trash and by age 25-32 most women have figured that out and don't want to be bothered.
 

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So you're judging promiscuity, but you're also judging celibacy. So in your eyes, the only solution is that a woman is supposed to just magically already be with the perfect man.
 

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement
Because it makes sense? As you get older you realize having xes just to have it and risking your health and unwanted pregnancies in the process just isn't worth it anymore. I've been 'celibate' for a couple of years now and plan on staying that way until I meet the man I'm going to marry.
 

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Whenever I try and be celibate it’s because past hurt and just needing to take a step back and heal.
 

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Literally the type of energy the OP always give off in his threads
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Alot of women become celibate because they want to avoid time wasters and maybe meet men who are more serious alot of women don't get orgasms from just hookups so it's no point
 

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My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement
Idk why men (black men especially) like to run with this narrative that’s loud and wrong. I guarantee most of the women up here who are celibate weren’t as promiscuous as you like to think to begin with. Especially since most of them are shaming other women for having xes outside of relationships anyway.

Most of the women I know who follow this celibacy route have never been promiscuous to begin with and tend to follow a somewhat traditional conservative route.
Most BW are inherently traditional and conservative without noticing.
some by choice and some due to programming and patriarchy.
 

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Idk why men (black men especially) like to run with this narrative that’s loud and wrong. I guarantee most of the women up here who are celibate weren’t as promiscuous as you like to think to begin with. Especially since most of them are shaming other women for having xes outside of relationships anyway.

Most of the women I know who follow this celibacy route have never been promiscuous to begin with and tend to follow a somewhat traditional conservative route.
Most BM are inherent traditional and conservative without noticing.
some by choice and some due to programming and patriarchy.



Women have not been getting shamed for xes outside of a relationship in the last 20 years.
 
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Too many fµck boys fµck!ng with your emotional and mental development. Hookup culture is damaging to your self esteem. Many women want to prevent getting hurt. I am 23 and I want to be celibate until I find someone worthy of being with me.
You're entirely right. It's sad that the current Western dating culture is so fµcked up that what you're calling "being celibate" until meeting the right man is just living without fµck!ng around and self-harming with dick. :pensive:
 

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That’s a bold faced lie and you know it



Do you really believe that most black men under 35 look sideways at black women that have xes out of relationships at all? I honestly don't believe that. Now if you said black men shame women with a high body count then that is debatable.
 

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The quality of men has gone down. Its best to preserve yourself and be selective about who you choose to have intercourse with..

Who wants a soul tie ? Its alot of work to undo them too, no one has time for that.
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Women who want a serious or long term relationship leading to marriage usually becomes celibate.

All the F-boys disappear because they can't get any free xes. They will ghost, which is fine because she won't catch feelings. Watch them disappear and be inconsistent without having xes with the woman. She'll get over him easily.

The men who interested will continue to date her and he will likely wait a bit longer to have xes with her.

She'll be happier with her choice of celibacy in the end.
 

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I love the unspoken policy that men on LSA shall be groaned for simply breathing in our virtual space.

Moving on... Your perception is trash and wrong. Why even make any assumption at all if you are truly interested in hearing women's perspectives?

I've never had xes. Why should I share my body with a lowly man? I have seen and dealt with enough emotional pain, I don't need the added soul tie of a xesual relationship with these dudes to cement the lesson.
 

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Because no one wants to fµck a man like OP and the rest of these losers/abusers who come on this site to covertly bully woman.
 

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Do you really believe that most black men under 35 look sideways at black women that have xes out of relationships at all? I honestly don't believe that. Now if you said black men shame women with a high body count then that is debatable.
YOU might not do that but a lot of your fellow brothers do. Where do you think the idea of women having extremely small & limited body count came from? Thin air??

In 2021 there are still grown ass women in their late 20’s and 30’s bragging about having a body count that they can count on one hand. Like it’s a badge of honor. Where do you think that standard came from?? It definitely wasn’t us.
 

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And then you get some new dick and the past is forgotten
Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.
 

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They gave the kitty away to bums and now want good men to pay the price
The same men that will judge her for giving it up too early ( for his undisclosed taste) but gladly take it while compartmentalizing their relationship into something unfavorable for her?
 

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this is the first generation of men who have grown up with easy access to pδrn, i dont think men care about relationships anymore. they want multiple girlfriends they can sleep with and he will expect each gf to do wifey things like cooking/cleaning, he will want to sleep around but he'll get upset if any of his gf sleep with another man
 

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