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Why are women 25-32 mostly the one's on the "I'm celibate" wave.

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They have racked up body counts with absolutely nothing to show for it. Now some sucka must pay the piper to get the goods.
I mean yeah...a lot of xes is whack as hell. Why keep doing it? Men pulling out those porno moves, lol. Won't listen to any instructions. Get offended when you tell them what they really like. So yeah, racking up a body count with no orgasm in sight.
 

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She's letting you know up front so you can decide if you want to waste/spend (depending on perspective) your time and effort. This should make it even more clear that it is a personal choice rather than a bargaining chip or something being inflicted upon a "good guy". If I were single, I wouldn't date men with children and would say it up front. We don't need the awkwardness later if we can avoid it.

That's not true. In today's society guys literally consider having xes after talking for two weeks "waiting a long time", that's literally not enough time for me (can't speak for other women). It has nothing to do with emotional baggage.

*I don't really have a dog in this fight, I'm under 25

Who goes from having xes regularly to now celibacy? Clearly you have some kind of baggage, and you think being celibate will fix that. It’s usually women who don’t trust themselves to make the right decisions after a series of bad ones. Maybe arranged marriage should be made into law, it would benefit women.
 

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OP, there's nothing wrong with recognizing that a lot of men aren't worth your energy and increasing your standards. In fact, it's great more women are doing this because that'll help the meet the right man that they want.

Also, when you've already made the decision to abstain from xes until you're in a serious relationship, it helps not cloud your judgement when you're on dates.

He can't see it that way. He thinks he supposed to have access to all the walls he wants.

Who goes from having xes regularly to now celibacy? Clearly you have some kind of baggage, and you think being celibate will fix that. It’s usually women who don’t trust themselves to make the right decisions after a series of bad ones. Maybe arranged marriage should be made into law, it would benefit women.

Why do you care, though? Why do you think what YOU understand has anything to do with a decision a woman has made about what to do with HER body?
 

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I love women

You love what women can do for you. You do not respect or love women at all.

Edit: He's skeptical because he doesn't know the difference. Seriously, why do men come here? I would never fµck a dude who continuously goes on all women chat sites just to argue with them.
 
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I'm not celibate as I've never had xes but I can say the thought of giving myself to a man truly disgusts me. Like I legit got beef with them lol
 

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement
Why are men so concerned what women are doing or (not doing) with their vaginas?
 

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I mean yeah...a lot of xes is whack as hell. Why keep doing it? Men pulling out those porno moves, lol. Won't listen to any instructions. Get offended when you tell them what they really like. So yeah, racking up a body count with no orgasm in sight.

Very good point. I hope all the women in this thread are listening to you!!!

And it's a guarantee that a man who diminishes what women choose to do with their own bodies is trash in bed. It wouldn't occur to them to respect female desire. Men who don't like women can't screw worth a damn.
 

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Life is filled with double standards.

a key that opens many locks is a master key

a lock that is opened by any key is a sh!tty lock



Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around

Omg please stop comparing our vaginas to fµck!ng locks. Locks can't push a baby out and recover. Locks don't have monthly menstrual cycles. Vaginas are way more complicated than a lock could ever be. That is dumbest saying ever that originated by a man that history didn't even bother naming because of how fµck!ng dumb it is. It was quickly adopted by men like you who don't want women to have any xesual freedom because it threatens their self esteem.

Let me show you how dumb you sound

A pencil that goes into multiple pencil sharpeners will just keep getting smaller and smaller until there's nothing left.

So men who fµck around must have tiny dicks, right?????

DO YOU SEE HOW fµck!ng DUMB YOU SOUND???????
 

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Omg please stop comparing our vaginas to fµck!ng locks. Locks can't push a baby out and recover. Locks don't have monthly menstrual cycles. Vaginas are way more complicated than a lock could ever be. That is dumbest saying ever that originated by a man that history didn't even bother naming because of how fµck!ng dumb it is. It was quickly adopted by men like you who don't want women to have any xesual freedom because it threatens their self esteem.

Let me show you how dumb you sound

A pencil that goes into multiple pencil sharpeners will just keep getting smaller and smaller until there's nothing left.

So men who fµck around must have tiny dicks, right?????

DO YOU SEE HOW fµck!ng DUMB YOU SOUND???????

are you a sh!tty lock?
 
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Very good point. I hope all the women in this thread are listening to you!!!

And it's a guarantee that a man who diminishes what women choose to do with their own bodies is trash in bed. It wouldn't occur to them to respect female desire. Men who don't like women can't screw worth a damn.
Hahaha, I really hope they listen too. You don't even realize how bad and boring a lot of xes is until you have a good partner. Then you honestly can't be bothered with anything less than that.
 

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Who goes from having xes regularly to now celibacy? Clearly you have some kind of baggage, and you think being celibate will fix that. It’s usually women who don’t trust themselves to make the right decisions after a series of bad ones. Maybe arranged marriage should be made into law, it would benefit women.
I went from having xes regularly to celibacy because I'm no longer in a relationship with the person I was sleeping with *GASPS*. I don't have xes outside of relationships, and I don't have xes until I'm comfortable in a relationship. It's pretty simple. Having morals and emotional baggage aren't mutually exclusive at all, matter of fact they don't even have anything to do with each other.
 
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Many women aren’t even celibate, they just aren’t having xes with every man they come across.

You and every other dusty man can easily go sleep with another woman willing to have xes with you. Better yet, pay a woman for her services but instead y’all cry and whine over the women that don’t want y’all.
 

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Who goes from having xes regularly to now celibacy? Clearly you have some kind of baggage, and you think being celibate will fix that. It’s usually women who don’t trust themselves to make the right decisions after a series of bad ones. Maybe arranged marriage should be made into law, it would benefit women.
Perhaps because men often don't change until they are forced (loss, ego, competition), they tend to assume women are doing the same thing. We tend to be more reflective, in general. Reflecting begets change.

If xes was no big deal, body count would not matter to men. Men often see a woman's xesual history as indicative of her character or lack thereof. Does her past matter or not? If you aren't her husband, you are adding to the same body count you are devaluing her for. Besides you wanting a nut, what is the benefit of her adding you to her list of partners?
 

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mare you a sh!tty lock?

Wow. I assumed I was talking to a grown man. My bad. Carry on lil boy.

PS you can't even argue against my point because you know it's true, so you reduce me to an animal and my genitals to a lock. Just know I see you for the lil boy you truly are. That's why you're on this site, you probably can't even talk to a woman in real life.
 
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Wow. I assumed I was talking to a grown man. My bad. Carry on lil boy.

PS you can't even argue against my point because you know it's true, so you reduce me to an animal and my genitals to a lock. Just know I see you for the lil boy you truly are. That's why you're on this site, you probably can't even talk to a woman in real life.

There no point in arguing with you if you get offended by an analogy. Also, why would I take you seriously when you immediately dismissed the point and telling me I sound dumb, when you can’t seem to grasp a simple example?

very funny
 

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Let me show you how dumb you sound

A pencil that goes into multiple pencil sharpeners will just keep getting smaller and smaller until there's nothing left.

So men who fµck around must have tiny dicks, right?????

DO YOU SEE HOW fµck!ng DUMB YOU SOUND???????
LMFAOOOO OH MY fµck!ng WORDDDDD!!!
 

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There no point in arguing with you if you get offended by an analogy. Also, why would I take you seriously when you immediately dismissed the point and telling me I sound dumb, when you can’t seem to grasp a simple example?

very funny

But your response to that font wasn't an analogy. It was an insult, with no rebuttal.
 

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I think it's smart. I think it's important to establish other forms of intimacy. Putting off xes for a bit forces you to really get to know the person. xes can sometimes cloud your judgement.
 
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Literally the type of energy the OP always give off in his threads
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Alot of women become celibate because they want to avoid time wasters and maybe meet men who are more serious alot of women don't get orgasms from just hookups so it's no point
And the winner of the internet goes to....
 
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It doesn't benefit me to have xes. Not only do I find it to be mediocre if not boring, I believe it is not worth dealing with risk to my health, dealing with birth control etc. On top of that VAST MAJORITY of men are insecure, emotionally immature, dishonest and abusive. Literally every guy is just trying to chill and have xes. I find nothing admirable about them or interesting as they cannot do anything but try to get pussy. If that is all you can do with your free time, you are a low life and pathetic to me not sorry.

While they are so worried about that, I am here saving money trying to make moves so I can move abroad and upgrade my life. Im going to gym 4x a weeks and therapy weekly to improve myself. They are just sitting on their ass, overweight and with obvious emotional issues they refuse to acknowledge or get help for. All while being a needy, manipulative and worthless asshole lacking in human decency. They avoid all accountability by gaslighting and projecting when you call them out on their creepy, lewd attitude towards you.

Thus, no one should be suprised that thought of sleeping with such creatures disgusts me. It has killed whatever desire I had to be with men.. i hardly trust them as friends as friendship to them means I xan fµck you without any regard for your welfare or interest in you as a human being. fµck that.. Why degrade myself by laying with them when I can satisfy my own xesual needs how I want it, when I want it without dealing with their toxicity and being traumatized?
 

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men kill me with the whole women gave it up to bums and now want "good men" to pay the price as if they're good men themselves, or acted like "good men" in their dealings with women.
 

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I'm the only celibate person I know so I wasn't aware this was a thing in my age group. Although I'm not a virgin, the men I've been with were those I was in a committed relationship with and I can count them all on one hand. Can't speak for other women who are celibate, but when I began dating for marriage, I gradually began to view xes as something that is extremely special and wanted my next time to be with the man I'm married to. In addition to that, I tend to not enjoy xes with a condom, and there are too many STDs & diseases to consider the alternative. Simple as that.

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Who goes from having xes regularly to now celibacy? Clearly you have some kind of baggage, and you think being celibate will fix that.
I think men are socialized to believe that xes is this inescapable biological need that MUST be acted on. Not only is that untrue, it’s problematic. Ironically, it’s because so many of you are so ruled by xes that you’re now disqualifying yourselves *from* xes.

Don’t assume that women are like you. Most of us are not xes-obsessed and many of us don’t see it as a priority. So don’t assume emotional baggage is at play here. You can try something and realize it’s not important to you.

What’s interesting to me is how many men seek to convince women to give them xes as if they’re obligated to, but don’t keep that same energy for their OWN daughters.

Would you advise your daughter to let any man run through her without a commitment? Probably not. And yet ALL of these women y’all want to run through are somebody’s daughters.

So give us the same respect you would want for your daughter. We’re shamed if we sleep around and now we’re being shamed for being abstinent? Make it make sense.
 

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I went from having xes regularly to celibacy because I'm no longer in a relationship with the person I was sleeping with *GASPS*. I don't have xes outside of relationships, and I don't have xes until I'm comfortable in a relationship. It's pretty simple. Having morals and emotional baggage aren't mutually exclusive at all, matter of fact they don't even have anything to do with each other.
THIS!!
 

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Whenever I try and be celibate it’s because past hurt and just needing to take a step back and heal.

SAME!

Men play too many mind games, and I'm WAY past the "he's ain't sh!t but the xes is fire" stage and mentality.....
 

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You get to a point where xes isn't the most important thing. That's why people choose celibacy.
Also, to refocus your priorities.
 

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Y'all don't deserve pussy. The fact that you're bitching about "paying the price" because you feel entitled to pussy is further proof that you don't deserve anything. Make xes and relationships surrounding it more healthy and enjoyable and then you'll become more successful.
 

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Why y’all men pussy watching !? Damned if we do, damned if we don’t!!! Most of y’all n!ggas have literally nothing to offer but peen that hasn’t been tested in over a year!! No thank you Sir. Most men just wanna play games and manipulate women and nobody has time for that sh!t. Not to mention a lot of men don’t like to give women head but it’s expected for us to give head to them. The selfishness and the crassness are all turn offs for me. And nowadays you can buy life-like penises so what’s really the point ?
 

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement


You ran into one too many celibate broads, and had to start a thread huh?
 

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There no point in arguing with you if you get offended by an analogy. Also, why would I take you seriously when you immediately dismissed the point and telling me I sound dumb, when you can’t seem to grasp a simple example?

very funny

Your analogy has been dismissed over time and time again. It was created to shame women for sleeping around and implies that our vaginas will be looser and less valuable because we have so many "keys" that opened us.

Do you understand how vaginas work? A vagina has the ability to expand three times bigger than it's size and then retract back to it's natural form. And I know men just loooooooove the myth that the more xes a woman has the looser she gets but honey that's been scientifically proven wrong many times. And it's so cute how men never apply that theory to women in relationships. We also have women proving that analogy wrong everyday, Kim K, Lori H, plenty more who have been with plenty of men and if anything it's upped their status. When women associate with high quality men, no matter how many, you're seen as high quality as well.

So your analogy is bµllsh!t that men came up with to stop women from being xesually free. There I considered your stupid little analogy. You happy?

again you are dumb and rude and disgusting for calling me a mare.
 

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why do ya'll keep humouring these women haters? OP doesn't care about your answers he just wants to find another way to put down women.
Because they’re stupid and also women haters. These threads won’t stop because people love running in here to brag about being whatever version of the perfect women they believe in.

Also they must not go outside. The 25-32 year olds I know have healthy xes lives if they’re single or dating. Don’t know too many celibates or incels
 

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Y'all don't deserve pussy. The fact that you're bitching about "paying the price" because you feel entitled to pussy is further proof that you don't deserve anything. Make xes and relationships surrounding it more healthy and enjoyable and then you'll become more successful.


A word.

I tell people often that this is how you know you can't choose your sexuality because being a hetero woman is the ghetto.
 

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I think men are socialized to believe that xes is this inescapable biological need that MUST be acted on. Not only is that untrue, it’s problematic. Ironically, it’s because so many of you are so ruled by xes that you’re now disqualifying yourselves *from* xes.

Don’t assume that women are like you. Most of us are not xes-obsessed and many of us don’t see it as a priority. So don’t assume emotional baggage is at play here. You can try something and realize it’s not important to you.

What’s interesting to me is how many men seek to convince women to give them xes as if they’re obligated to, but don’t keep that same energy for their OWN daughters.

Would you advise your daughter to let any man run through her without a commitment? Probably not. And yet ALL of these women y’all want to run through are somebody’s daughters.

So give us the same respect you would want for your daughter. We’re shamed if we sleep around and now we’re being shamed for being abstinent? Make it make sense.
Men aren’t mentally and emotionally evolving as fast as women. The ones who are evolving have no issues with women, while the unevolved ones try to bully, trick, and shame women into xes. If they leveled up, they wouldn’t have these issues but they rather defend their frail egos instead of adjusting with the times. The brutes can return to the caves where they belong and the civilized will continue to live their best lives.
 

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im 27, personally i think its because when ur in your early 20s a lot of people have hookups cuz they think its fun and cool, but a lot like me as we get grown, realize it ain't all its cracked up to be and we kind of just get bored of it and want something more, we want to stay celibate because obviously it weeds out a lot of f boys and men who are actually interested in you, so thats why, i mean i thought it was pretty common sense I don't know why someone would ask this question unless you're like 18,,,
 

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