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Black men make all these demands of Black women and threaten us by saying that if we don't do XYZ then we shouldn't expect protection. I don't know where Black men got this idea that protecting women of your community is optional but they need to hang it the fµck up. To watch men sit up and claim that they would watch their women be brutalized and harassed because they wear weave and don't smile at them in public is pathetic beyond words. Why does anyone take them seriously? PROTECTION IS NOT OPTIONAL. We deserve protection whether we're Claire Huxtable or Keisha from the projects with six baby daddies. Protection does not have to be earned, it is given freely. THEY have to earn respect and submission in return for provision and protection. They have yet to do this after hundreds of years.
 

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All of these women deserve equal protection and that's on period.
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When its said, bw are talking ABOUT bm.... when have they ever seen accountability on their end? To protect bw, bm will have to admit they're the cause of the pain.

We know better.

Divest.
 
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Protection from who? More would be willing to step in if it was men from other groups, but outside of friends and family you're on your own when it comes to domestic violence. Decent BM can't risk their life over some random street idiot who has nothing to lose. You and the rest of society are scared of BM, and so am I.

I have a cousin whose new boyfriend tried to "protect" her and he had to shoot her child's father in self-defense, now he is rotting in jail and she has moved on. The police are your best line of defense against BM.
 

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Honestly because we as bw make it optional. I think that we have to realize our power as women. If we collectively demand more we will receive more. You have bw in lsa threads like this saying bm arent obligated to protect us but then turnaround and get mad when a bw is beat up by a man while no black men are trying to help her. One thing for sure though, if any other race’s women are being dogged on the internet you wont see the women defending their honor, you will see the men. I unfortunately cant say the same for bw. Nothing will change until bw stop saying “it’s not that deep” when in fact, it is.
 

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Got a thread full of black women justifying why men leave their children. Start there
Why are some Black Fathers absent?
Girl..that font is going hard as hell and getting mad at me that I said a father will be in a child's life if they want to no matter what the circumstances are. There's too many BW always making excuses for BM.
 

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Got a thread full of black women justifying why men leave their children. Start there
Why are some Black Fathers absent?
Not I. I specified an ethnic group. Abandoning your kids en mass is an AA male thing. Other ethnicities of Black male are more marriage-minded and family oriented. There is only one ethnic group of male who says I owe women of my own ethnicity nothing and it is the ADOS man. Other Black men need to separate themselves from ADOS men so they don't get caught in the crossfire.
 
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Black men make all these demands of Black women and threaten us by saying that if we don't do XYZ then we shouldn't expect protection. I don't know where Black men got this idea that protecting women of your community is optional but they need to hang it the fµck up. To watch men sit up and claim that they would watch their women be brutalized and harassed because they wear weave and don't smile at them in public is pathetic beyond words. Why does anyone take them seriously? PROTECTION IS NOT OPTIONAL. We deserve protection whether we're Claire Huxtable or Keisha from the projects with six baby daddies. Protection does not have to be earned, it is given freely. THEY have to earn respect and submission in return for provision and protection. They have yet to do this after hundreds of years.
no one has to do sh!t for you unless they your family or spouse dont expect sh!t from anyone especially if you think your entitled to it cause we share a common ancestor/skin tone
 

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no one has to do sh!t for you unless they your family or spouse dont expect sh!t from anyone especially if you think your entitled to it cause we share a common ancestor/skin tone
This is where the thinking differs between bw and bm. BW stupidly running around comparing every stranger bm to their “brother/father/son”. Lol
 

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This is where the thinking differs between bw and bm. BW stupidly running around comparing every stranger bm to their “brother/father/son”.

I mostly hear police brutality and racist attacks which is valid it could be anyone whos blacks

other than that I dont see the average black woman giving a fµck about the average man she not related ro
 

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They protect the 'others' though. They don't protect us because they don't like us, its simple.
That is correct. They swoop in and get their Falcon on for non-BW. Like they'll be ready to defend even potentially die for the honor of random, unrelated non-BW.
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They only really use the word 'simping' when it comes to treating BW respectfully. I've said this before BM have no problem with Biracial, White, Asian and Hispanic women using their womanhood to escape attacks directing at them/their men. But want BW to be collateral damage at best and take the full brunt of anti-BM attacks at worst.
 
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Lord, yall are still waiting for protection from bm?

Yall are never going to get it.
Just go exercise, drink your water, apply jbco on your edges, start manifesting and go live your life.

Bm won't do anything for yall bw. They won't.
 
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Protection is not only physical. It's representation, provision, and responsibility to your community. These fonts are stuck on the violence aspect of protection but it's bigger than that. What's the excuse for the lack of protection in regards to the non violent aspect?
 

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Girl..that font is going hard as hell and getting mad at me that I said a father will be in a child's life if they want to no matter what the circumstances are. There's too many BW always making excuses for BM.

<LMAO> Really?? All I see more and more of are BW consistently bashing the BM.
 

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Probably due to the fact that you've claimed to be so many races and ethnicities.
You're confusing me with another font. Someone will randomly say: You're white, You're Russian, You're Nigerian in response to a valid argument. Very strange.
Edit: @BahiaMA71 is serial groaning me and upvoting false statements about my font.
 
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Look at Nimrata, lol. I honestly think @Lina Kumar's objective at this point is just alleybux! Let's all contribute to Ms. Patel's alleybux fund, you KNOW them indian men don't be letting their women have sh!t of their own... Nimrata just wants to buy some red bottoms at the alleymart, y'all! :laugh2 :laugh2 :laugh2
 

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We deserve protection whether we're Claire Huxtable or Keisha from the projects with six baby daddies. Protection does not have to be earned, it is given freely.
No one owes you a damn thing. No other group props their trash up.

Keisha with her six baby daddies is a reckless fool. She needs to ask one of those ninjas for protection. Everyone else should steer clear of her bµllsh!t.
 

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Not I. I specified an ethnic group. Abandoning your kids en mass is an AA male thing. Other ethnicities of Black male are more marriage and family oriented. There is only one ethnic group of male who says I owe women of my own ethnicity nothing and it is the ADOS man. Other Black men need to separate themselves from ADOS men so they don't get caught in the crossfire.
There are constant complaints from Caribbean and African women about this. What are you talking about?
 

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Sadly they still will have plenty of pick me's and low hanging fruits lined up at their disposal to be used and abused and to fight a man's battle on the frontline. Smh
I was watching Judge Mathis yesterday and there was a BW suing a BM that she met on a dating app and shortly after they met he started asking her for money. He said the only reason he asked her for money is because of what she had told him about her job. Well instead of paying her back he made up a lot of excuses. He didn't have a job and when the judge asked this guy why he didn't pay it back he said it's because he gambled the money away but had intended on winning it to be able to pay her back. The judge then asked if he had plans on getting a job and he was like "I'll just find the next woman to ask for money" :disdain

Nevermind the fact he spent the first few minutes of his testimony claiming he was catfished by her but he stuck around to use her for her money and then dipped.

These negroes are out here entitled and not giving two fucks about BW unless we can be used
 

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I was watching Judge Mathis yesterday and there was a BW suing a BM that she met on a dating app and shortly after they met he started asking her for money. He said the only reason he asked her for money is because of what she had told him about her job. Well instead of paying her back he made up a lot of excuses. He didn't have a job and when the judge asked this guy why he didn't pay it back he said it's because he gambled the money away but had intended on winning it to be able to pay her back. The judge then asked if he had plans on getting a job and he was like "I'll just find the next woman to ask for money" :disdain

Nevermind the fact he spent the first few minutes of his testimony claiming he was catfished by her but he stuck around to use her for her money and then dipped.

These negroes are out here entitled and not giving two fucks about BW unless we can be used
Now, why are you here after spending 2 days complaining to me about fonts staying up in threads that don't concern them. You told me black men were not your preference.

What's the truth?
 
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Now, why are you here after spending 2 days complaining to me about fonts staying up in threads that don't concern that them. You told me black men were not your preference.

What's the truth?
Oh shut up. You are obsessed with what I write on this site. I'm a black woman who doesn't have the right to be concerned about how OTHER black women are being treated?

Girl go put your cape on and leave me out of your brain please

Geezus. You lurk in the IR thread and shame and then b!tch because I'm in a thread about how BLACK WOMEN are treated??? GTFOH and go somewhere!
 

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Oh shut up. You are obsessed with what I write on this site. I'm a black woman who doesn't have the right to be concerned about how OTHER black women are being treated?

Girl go put your cape on and leave me out of your brain please

Geezus. You lurk in the IR thread and shame and then b!tch because I'm in a thread about how BLACK WOMEN are treated??? GTFOH and go somewhere!

Divest, sis. Divest. In every way. You'll do yourself a favor. :ROFLMAO:
 

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OP, a whole Indian woman, said "us" in a statement referring to black women.
Not to be mean spirited or hateful however, shouldn't the OP talk about some Asian/Indian men and their abuse of Asian/Indian women? I mean if we're going to be up front and honest.
 

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