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I think some of you are not ever around white people because your comments are strange. Growing up in NYC and now living in Europe, i've seen white and Asian people do ghis ALL THE TIME. Italian-American men will easily say, "My wife is Irish" (or whatever other ethnicity). Here in Europe, the same.
 

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Ratchet behavior & dysfunction is in every Race.
You can find ratchet hoes in every color... black, brown, white, asian!

There are a lot of Black Men who date and marry ratchet chicks from other races.

I live in the South and the majority of the black Men I see are with very ratchet White or Latina chicks.

The majority of Men with money always end up marrying a Woman who was nothing but a gold digging hoe. Tons of rich Men wife up Call-girls and Escorts.
I live in the south as well and I’ve noticed this. Which is why I never understood that to be the reason why some Black men date out. They’d usually go for trailer trash or hood ass white women.
 

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I wish black men would brag about their educational and career accomplishments. fµck!ng a non black woman is not an accomplishment.
 

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Well nick cannon said non black women are a badge of honor for a black man whose made it so maybe that’s why. I’m sure that’s what many black men feel which is why I don’t get why so many SJW are dedicated to attacking BW who date out. I hardly hear them doing stuff like that when they do.

Because in actuality they know the black woman is dating up while the non black woman is dating down. For every millionaire black man there are 100 white, asian, indian, men with more.
 

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Well building the community is a man’s responsibility in a patriarchal society so they are the ones that let it get that far.
Embarrassing

I'm sure they feel it's other men, not them. The debacle happened before they were born and aren't responsible for other people's actions.
 

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I think some of you are not ever around white people because your comments are strange. Growing up in NYC and now living in Europe, i've seen white and Asian people do ghis ALL THE TIME. Italian-American men will easily say, "My wife is Irish" (or whatever other ethnicity). Here in Europe, the same.

Thats not the same as the point of my OP.
I don't care what white men/people do.
 
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It shows they're a good man for marrying a woman and one from a group with good standing.
And what’s a group with bad standing?

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You just dragged black men
He literally said; to black men being with a black women is associating them to failure (their failure of not being able to build a community comparable to other men)

Apparently black women are a constant reminder of everything that’s wrong with them.

I’ve read some of your analyses, how do you see this?

@coco2thepuff99
 
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This is so true.

I remember when I was working at a retail job, organising some clothes and then as I was walking back to the till there was a wm walking towards me and smiling. I didn't look at him directly but I was watching from the corner of my eye and he literally stopped and waited for his black wife/girlfriend to catch up to him, held her hand and was still watching me and smiling. I was like...

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How strange. I feel like he wanted me to know that he was 'open' to dating bw and expected me to feel flattered.

I have also seen this same behaviour with bm as well.



eeew i have also been threw the same thing I was sitting in my vehicle waiting for someone I was reading a book I seen the couple walking towards me as I browsed the area with a quick glance and went back to reading. Next thing I knew they were standing in front of me and because he thought I wasn't paying him a (BM) no mind he moved more in my view and started making out with his older (WW). I thought to myself Mr. GTF on.
 

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in interracial relationships feel like they must tell you the race or ethnicity or their wives?

A college professor randomly told our class that his wife was Polish. In a work meeting, a colleague told us his wife is Korean.

They mention it like it's an accomplishment or an honor. If I had a white or asian husband, I wouldn't go around just randomly telling people.

So odd.

This is so accurate. I’ve had this experience multiple times. One I remember was when I was in a research program at a college, the black professor there made it a point to mention that both he & his biracial son had German wives. It was completely irrelevant to the conversation. He was also bragging about the thousands he made from selling his artwork. I think for some of these men, a non black woman, especially a white one, is a symbol of success.

There have been other settings where a black man randomly brought up the fact that his wife was non black. One Nigerian co worker I had was bragging about how he did most of the cooking for his Japanese wife. He even showed me pictures of her & his daughters as “proof”.

Their behavior is really cringe worthy.
 

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It’s like letting you know not to get designs on them for any romantic feelings because they type is so-and-so. “No, d******% need apply.” That’s been my experience. However, I had a white academic colleague bring up her Black husband a lot whenever she could(and he’d show up every day for something like lunch or to discuss work; we saw him too much for her to keep telling us).
 

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Dating a non black woman is an accomplishment to them, they see it as some sort of prize. I just have to laugh about it, because it’s a pity lol
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Is that why bleaching is so prevalent in people of color that are non black? Really curious to know.

Well bleaching has a lot of different layers to it.

I will say that in Ancient China, Ancient India and Ancient Egypt the lighter you were the wealthier you were. Royalty and the rich stayed out of the sun and in the house all day, while the servants and peasants worked in the sun all day and developed a tan. The caste system in both Ancient India and Latin America put the darkest people on the bottom.

Colorism has been ingrained in society for thousands of years. It’s not a new concept. And it’s part of tradition for a lot of them.
 

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White women are status symbols. White women are seen as a sign of wealth and power. That’s why men of color date them duh. It’s an “I made it” moment for them.
 

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They probably feel the community is beyond hope and don't want to be associated with it's failure.

If the community is beyond hope, then you’re already associated with the failures. Which is why black men are stereotyped as being criminals, lazy and broke. If the community isn’t thriving then they automatically look at the men.
 

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One thing about threads dealing with Black men is people going to bring up other races of men. Yall can never stay on topic but if it was the other way around yall don't bring up non black women.

Just a little observation I noticed...
 

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One thing about threads dealing with Black men is people going to bring up other races of men. Yall can never stay on topic but if it was the other way around yall don't bring up non black women.

Just a little observation I noticed...
Thanks. It never fails.
 

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King @MalcolmOBAMA Your Thoughts?
I don't know any Black Men including myself who brag about dating White Women. Dating interracialy is normal to me and a lot of other Black Men, so I don't understand how can you brag about something that is normal to you.

I don't know any black women besides family members in my personal life, so if I was a bragger there are no black women to brag it to. People in society are very insecure and unhappy with their lives,when they are intimidated, bitter and angry about who Black Men choose and prefer
 

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King @MalcolmOBAMA Your Thoughts?
I don't know any Black Men including myself who brag about dating White Women. Dating interracialy is normal to me and a lot of other Black Men, so I don't understand how can you brag about something that is normal to you.

I don't know any black women besides family members in my personal life, so if I was a bragger there are no black women to brag it to. People in society are very insecure and unhappy with their lives,when they are intimidated, bitter and angry about who Black Men choose and prefer
 

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If the community is beyond hope, then you’re already associated with the failures. Which is why black men are stereotyped as being criminals, lazy and broke. If the community isn’t thriving then they automatically look at the men.

Except for one particular community that has this male worshipping mentality and loves to blame the women....
 

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in interracial relationships feel like they must tell you the race or ethnicity or their wives?

A college professor randomly told our class that his wife was Polish. In a work meeting, a colleague told us his wife is Korean.

They mention it like it's an accomplishment or an honor. If I had a white or asian husband, I wouldn't go around just randomly telling people.

So odd.
that's white women *and* black men. they both do it, from my experience. because they fetishize the women they're with for being white, asian or whatever else. they value them for that trait alone. so they assume that the rest of us will value them as men for being attached to those white or asian women.
 

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in interracial relationships feel like they must tell you the race or ethnicity or their wives?

A college professor randomly told our class that his wife was Polish. In a work meeting, a colleague told us his wife is Korean.

They mention it like it's an accomplishment or an honor. If I had a white or asian husband, I wouldn't go around just randomly telling people.

So odd.
what's so crazy is that right now that thread on that UNC coach is trending where he randomly informed the world that his wife is white, as if anyone asked or cared. lol it's amazing how black male shenanigans manifest on the DAILY. Enough content to last a lifetime.
 

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I don't know any Black Men including myself who brag about dating White Women. Dating interracialy is normal to me and a lot of other Black Men, so I don't understand how can you brag about something that is normal to you.

I don't know any black women besides family members in my personal life, so if I was a bragger there are no black women to brag it to. People in society are very insecure and unhappy with their lives,when they are intimidated, bitter and angry about who Black Men choose and prefer
are you on LSA to find a white woman?
 

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This site was created by a Black Man named Eddie George. Eddie George. Com to be exact. Also the rules of this site states that ALL is welcome.

You’re wrong. The site you’re thinking of was EddieGeorge.com not LipstickAlley.com


And it was actually created by a white man. Eddie was an athlete who just stuck his name on the site
 

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