Heaux
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I swear i have the worst luck in men. I’ve been in countless sh!tty situations when it comes to dating, i’ve had fµcked up things happen to me so i thought i’d go for an older man, i finally find one who i deem is ‘worthy’. An island man in his late 30s from Bermuda who migrated to my state many years ago who has his own security business, and does personal training too, seems to make good money, owns a really nice beach house. I met him at a lounge and the chemistry has been something that reminds me of my first love. I have been nothing but courted, treated like a queen, he even took me out on a boat for a quick dinner for my lunch break. He has shown me things I have never seen before.
Turns out I ended up googling him, and let me tell u what i saw was nothing but shocking. Articles upon articles about court cases linking him to murder, bank theft, other suspect activities and how he fled his home country due to safety reasons, i ended up confronting him over text and he ended up crying, claiming he was innocent and if he was those things he wouldn’t be able to be in the position he is in with his own business etc.. He said the ball is in my court and i can call the shots but he says he has grown to really love my company.
I just feel like all my previous boyfriends, situationships, they’ve all ended up being criminals. My first love is still in jail for the sh!t he did. Has anyone else have this problem? what am i doing wrong? why can’t i find a decent man? Would you date a criminal?
Turns out I ended up googling him, and let me tell u what i saw was nothing but shocking. Articles upon articles about court cases linking him to murder, bank theft, other suspect activities and how he fled his home country due to safety reasons, i ended up confronting him over text and he ended up crying, claiming he was innocent and if he was those things he wouldn’t be able to be in the position he is in with his own business etc.. He said the ball is in my court and i can call the shots but he says he has grown to really love my company.
I just feel like all my previous boyfriends, situationships, they’ve all ended up being criminals. My first love is still in jail for the sh!t he did. Has anyone else have this problem? what am i doing wrong? why can’t i find a decent man? Would you date a criminal?
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