This type of mentality only germinates within a discrete group of dyfunctional underclass Black folks. Cut them out of your life and you won't have men perpetually disrespect you [yes, girls, this is disrespectful].
I responded to you in confusion for using the term "Blackistani" I don't even know where to start.
I've never heard a Black person use that term.
You looking real suspect right now.