They’re jealous and know that it bothers u...u have to get away from toxic family members. I had to let my mother and sisters go...they treated me like trash all because they thought because I went in the military, i thought i was better than them...don’t let ANYONE destroy ur peace!My male family members always prey on my self esteem... I've been told I was pretty by people, but my family go out of their way to remind me that I'm nothing and that I'll never have anything. I always was a bum, broke, dusty and could never catch a break when I was around them... I been away for 10 years and made contact by accident and it took me right back to that old place. They're begging for pictures of me! But I don't want to send them any.
I cursed them out on FACEBOOK... & I have since closed it my account and going back no contact.
I sometimes question if I'm worthy or not. I sometimes question if I'm attractive. & I just got in a position to glow up at 28... but they haven't seen me since 19-20 years old.
This might be the best comment ive read in this part of lsa. A word!It’s hard to outgrow traditional family dynamics in a toxic family. They will still see you in the roles that they chose to cast you in. And when you interact with them in later life, they will still try to treat you as and view as the person they saw you as years ago. Especially when you work on yourself and grow. They resent your progress. You are right to disassociate yourself from them if they are this toxic.
Thank you. I know a lot about the topic and I feel for op.This might be the best comment ive read in this part of lsa. A word!
This explains so much! I appreciate ur answer!It’s hard to outgrow traditional family dynamics in a toxic family. They will still see you in the roles that they chose to cast you in. And when you interact with them in later life, they will still try to treat you as and view as the person they saw you as years ago. Especially when you work on yourself and grow. They resent your progress. You are right to disassociate yourself from them if they are this toxic.