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All those outfits are fine for home. Both the sweats and the 'levelled-up' ones. As long as you clean up nice, it really doesn't matter. He probably looks like catshit at home too.

That being said, I would still recommend a shower, brushed teeth, and a spritz of perfume or nice lotion while at home. Hot breath and B.O. are not cute.
 

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OP is a troll

But to entertain the discussion at hand:

a) are any of the women pictured dressed this way in front of their men? I don't see their men in the picture

b) as others have mentioned, a lot of men like the fact that their woman isn't dressed up to the nines alllll the time. It's nice to know that your SO feels comfortable enough around you that they can be makeup-less, wear loungewear etc. This 'be classy and wear feminine things 24/7' is a stupid gimmick pushed by those scamming feMiNiNiTy gUrUs
 

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And here I am sitting here in my parents house with sweatpants and shirt, working after dropping off my son to my mom. I will switch out into different sweatpants and a shirt when I get home lol...

For me I just like oversize clothes right now, especially after giving birth I just don't feel like wearing cute stuff right now. Hopefully by the time I have his 6 month photoshoot in June I will lose some weight and be ready to dress up.
 

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Tank top and sweats or leggings. It's coming off at the end of the night anyway so it doesn't really matter. :ROFLMAO:
 

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Do your own thing OP. There's nothing unrealistic about wearing actual pajamas. Allow yourself to stand out from other women. The right guy will appreciate it. As someone who doesn't own a pair of sweats, the examples would be an odd pairing for me.

Personally, I dislike the typical lumberjack dad sleepwear. It gives me trailer park Cialis vibes.

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I had a co-worker who walked around the house dressed up in high heels and a teddy and called her husband "daddy." He wiped out her savings and left town with his white male trainer

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Because it’s comfortable and because I look gorgeous whether I’m wearing a dress or sweatpants?
 

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Lmaoo now op you knew exactly how this was gonna go now I’m not inclined or against wearing cutesy house wear but you should’ve known coming on here asking this was not gonna go over well
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Real women are secure enough in their femininity to chill in sweats - those women of the trans variety are more likely to dress to the nines to ‘prove’ their femininity.....I’m currently wearing a pair of Lululemon leggings (can’t beat them for comfort) & a baggy grey hoody - my ‘uniform’ of choice during lockdown (currently under lockdown in London).......Also, I side with another font who mentioned why there isn’t the same onus on men to dress up at home, why do we always have to be decorative, obedient creatures?! SMH......
Is OP a troll because her threads are always ridiculous....

I’ve managed to deduce from other fonts that’s she’s a ‘black identified Indian woman, obsessed with actual black women’ - she’s committed I give her that! Lol.....
 

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I have questions if you think those fire hazard polyester sets look good.

I agree that sweats are hideous. They're not "comfy" to me either and I even hate that word but seriously...

you're not going to get a man by bending over backwards to get a man.

and if you're listening to these hypergamy channels... the fact that they don't show their faces or lifestyles should tell you everything. also look at sheraseven when she started. she was not cute or leveled up. just young and went for an old married man

Totally agree with the bolded - excellent point!!!
 

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Cuz it’s my mf house and I wear what I want. That man doesn’t wear his “nice boxers” and slippers that don’t talk for me, so wtf he need me to look like a Sears model for? FOH.

I think it is so exceptionally cute that you cited a Sears model and not something like Victoria's Secret.
(And I'm cracking up at "slippers that don't talk.")
 

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No seriously.

I was on LSA last week praising the whole concept of sweatsuit chic.

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Regardless of the situation...

This

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will always look better than this

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He knows I’m fine so I can be ugly in peace

Honestly! I've walked around in sweatpants (his specifically) and my "Michelle Obama is still my first Lady" sweatshirt and he still told me he loved the look and thought I looked sexy. He also loves me in my Harry Potter pj's :arrogant fµck off OP.
 

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OP is clearly generating content for her YouTube channel and we should just pay her thirsty ass dust. Let her wear cheap polyester pajamas for her “man” in peace!
 
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If I can't dress like this around my man then I don't want him.

He needs to walk around in a thong on his hands and kness for me if that's the case.
 

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This is just so vintage. Women used to think that they had to be the perfect house wives and look perfect every moment of the day. Meanwhile, the men that they were trying to impress were still out doing whoever and whatever they wanted to do.

I can tell that OP is inexperienced because most women know that when you're lounging comfortably at home with no makeup and maybe your hair up is when our men find us to be the most beautiful....

Stop sitting behind a computer dreaming of a fantasy life with unrealistic expectations. Get out and interact with real people in the real world. People really are losing that very basic ability and this pandemic hasn't helped things.
 

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Girl bye lol..wearing sweats over tight ass lingerie is comfy af! Not sure who sold you that lie that a woman still can’t be sexy in sweats. Better get with it!!


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1. She is being how it is most comfortable for HER.
2. Some men are only turned on by naked. Lingerie and cute clothes are a waste. (maybe she knows this since he is her man).
3. Let's have this conversation when men make more effort to look cute around the house.
4. Whatever works for the couple, works for the couple.
 
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How about you turn your tv off and join the real world? Have you ever dated before?[/QUOTE]

Doesn't sound like it or she thinks real life is a 24/7 rom-com.
 

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WTF OP.... men don't give a sh!t about this stuff, at least straight ones don't. What, you think our men sit around watching Project Runway like you do?

All men think is no clothes > clothes. Besides, fµck what they want.

My husband has been trying to get me to sleep naked for ten years but to hell with that, I'm always COLD so sweats or flannel it is.
 

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The pjs you suggested we wear look cold. I’d just throw an ugly robe over it. I’m sticking with my hoodie and sweats thank you.
 

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What "Blair" is wearing in the first picture is literally no different than what the women are wearing in the OP and imo her attire in the first picture looks more frumpy than what the women are wearing in your OP.

We all don't like pajamas, house wear or whatever is deemed "feminine". Women are supposed to stop buying and wearing sweatshirts, sweatpants, tank tops, leggings and yoga pants all because you find them ugly and unlady-like? If retailers and brands make and have items available for purchase people are going to buy them.

I find silk pajamas, pajamas in general, housecoats, etc to be ugly and frumpy. You will never catch me buying or wearing that grandma (no offense) type of mess around the house but you don't see me criticizing women who choose to wear that.

Also I don't really give a dam what men think. I wear what I want when I want, other women and men are allowed to do the same. To constantly and only wear clothing that will impress men sounds like a sad and draining existence. Sounds like some 1950's type of mess. No thanks.
 
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Lol at this thread and OP's attempt to "elevate" other women.

OP, stop worrying about what other women wear around their men. I mean, why do you really care? Is this issue affecting you personally?
 
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If you always have to be dressed up/ made up around your man, I think you know deep down that you’re just not that attractive when being yourself which is sad lmbo... attractive women can walk around in jogging pants, oversized shirts, sneakers, etc and still get hit on because THEY ARE NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE. I’m always cute so I guess I can’t relate :arrogant
 

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Eh, man or no man.

Depending on the season I wear both. I wear silk robes when I’m feeling sensual and sweats when I want to feel comfy.

You're going to have a hard life if everything you do revolve around a man.
 

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Girl bye! You can tell OP has no experience with being in a long term life. If a man loved you and is attracted to you they don't really care what you wear at home. I can walk around the house with painted overalls and a straw hat and my man would find that sh!t sexy.
 

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