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Why Do You Believe Some White Men Prefer Black Women?

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So, my next new favorite design show is HGTV's 100 Day Dream Home with Mika and Brian Kleinschmidt. Their goal is to build your dream home within 100 days.

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So, I looked them up. They're from Florida, knew each other from high school and he was once married to Erika Dunlap (Miss Florida 2003 who went on to become Miss America). I remember her.

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Do you think some white men just have a preference for Black women -- like some men prefer brunettes?

What do you think triggers that preference in them? Do you believe it's in their DNA? Upbringing?
 

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The same reason why everyone else on earth has preferences. like whattt??

Men like women because women are beautiful. Black, white, asian or other
 

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The same reason why everyone else on earth has preferences. like whattt??

Men like women because women are beautiful. Black, white, asian or other
I get that but in the U.S. we have embraced the idea that since white women are promoted so heavily in the U.S. that is why some accomplished Black men prefer them. Since BW are not heavily marketed/promoted I wonder how white men who obviously show a pattern of preferring BW develop that preference. What inspires them to embrace the beauty of BW?
 

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Maybe they believe all of the things that black women write over and over on Twitter to build themselves up after another long session of whining about what black men prefer. :struggle
 

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I get that but in the U.S. we have embraced the idea that since white women are promoted so heavily in the U.S. that is why some accomplished Black men prefer them. Since BW are not heavily marketed/promoted I wonder how white men who obviously show a pattern of preferring BW develop that preference. What inspires them to embrace the beauty of BW?

Their penises. They see women for their uniqueness. I think some of us have really let social conditioning get into our head and control our preferences. I stand by my first comment regardless of what society pushes.
 

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Their penises. They see women for their uniqueness. I think some of us have really let social conditioning get into our head and control our preferences. I stand by my first comment regardless of what society pushes.
If they saw women for their "uniqueness" then their range of women would be more diverse. In this country WW are promoted so effectively - so intentionally - so cleverly that I wonder what could possibly inspire a WM to decide they prefer to mate with a BW.
 

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If they saw women for their "uniqueness" then their range of women would be more diverse. In this country WW are promoted so effectively - so intentionally - so cleverly that I wonder what could possibly inspire a WM to decide they prefer to mate with a BW.

You keep asking the same question. Im sorry Im not giving you the answer you are looking for. Again, social conditioning doesn't work on everyone. Sometimes people like what they like for different reasons. I think BW are starting to see a little better promo too, and its out in the open that BW are now opening their options and leaving blackistan.
 

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I don't know what the answer is I'm looking for? I'm just asking for an opinion. You've given yours and thank you. No need to engage this thread any longer.

I can engage in whatever thread I please, for however long i please . Thanks
 

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Is there anything wrong with that?

Apparently, to you, it is.

For some odd reason, you don't believe that a man, even a white one, could meet, get to know and see a black woman the way she hopefully sees herself.

In your own OP, you wrote that the man practically grew up with this woman. He didn't pick her out of a catalog, HE KNOWS HER. :neutral:

Are you really suggesting that even after getting to know a woman, a man, even a white man, should pass up a reasonable black woman, simply because she's black? :cautious: :cautious:
 

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Cute couple.

Black women are beautiful. Point blank period. Why wouldn’t they desire us????
 

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Apparently, to you, it is.

For some odd reason, you don't believe that a man, even a white one, could meet, get to know and see a black woman the way she hopefully sees herself.
If this is what you got from my OP you are clueless to the purpose of my thread. I never stated WM can not find BW attractive. Of course they can. But the gentleman in my OP has only married BW. He obviously has a preference. In a country that tries to downplay the beauty of BW I wonder what inspires them to seek us out.... it damn sure ain't the media.
 

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welp not that their preferences even matter but i've had a friend try to work through his identity issues...it just seems like a bunch of cognitive dissonance. in terms of attraction, yes beautiful women are beautiful women, but the qualities he would enjoy in white women he claims they're always going for black guys. that's why i stay in my black women business :kissing:
 

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If this is what you got from my OP you are clueless to the purpose of my thread. I never stated WM can not find BW attractive. Of course they can. But the gentleman in my OP has only married BW. He obviously has a preference. In a country that tries to downplay the beauty of BW I wonder what inspires them to seek us out.... it damn sure ain't the media.

Well, from the tone of your questions and responses, it's clear to everyone else that you are looking for something to explain this man's "preference" other than the women he chose are seen as preferable options.

You are inferring that it really isn't about these women, but more about this man that these women happen to cross paths with. And, I suppose that's the way love goes, but your POV is curious.
 

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Well, from the tone of your questions and responses, it's clear to everyone else that you are looking for something to explain this man's "preference" other than the women he chose are seen as preferable options.

You are inferring that it really isn't about these women, but more about this man that these women happen to cross paths with. And, I suppose that's the way love goes, but your POV is curious.
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Are white men or women visually impaired? I did a Zoom interview today and the interviewer gushed about what a cute little girl I was because of the photo in the back of me on the wall.

Black girls and women are beautiful. Not difficult to fathom why any man finds us attractive.
 

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Every race prefers to be with their own race but typically if they are rejected by their race (for various reasons) then they date outside of their race. Plain and simple.
 

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Are white men or women visually impaired? I did a Zoom interview today and the interviewer gushed about what a cute little girl I was because of the photo in the back.

Black girl and women are beautiful. Not difficult to fathom why any man finds us attractive.
I never stated that Black women are not beautiful.

The U.S. sets WW up to secure the most eligible men in their race and some of the most eligible in the Black race. They promote them on tv, in the movies and other mediums. There's evidence that their efforts are successful because it is difficult to name very wealthy and successful BM who marry ebony-hued BW.

I wonder with all of the coaching, how these eligible white men buck the system and prefer/pursue BW. Is it in their DNA? Upbringing? Just wanting your thoughts.
 
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Because they're attracted to Black women. I'm sure a lot of white men are, but some keep it private, probably because of what their racist friends and family members will think. And they don't have enough "courage" to date interracially.
 

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Because they're attracted to Black women. I'm sure a lot of white men are, but some keep it private, probably because of what their racist friends and family members will think. And they don't have enough "courage" to date interracially.
Thanks for taking my thread seriously enough to provide a thoughtful answer. I guess the difference is some WM just have more "courage" to express what they like, huh.
 

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If this is what you got from my OP you are clueless to the purpose of my thread. I never stated WM can not find BW attractive. Of course they can. But the gentleman in my OP has only married BW. He obviously has a preference. In a country that tries to downplay the beauty of BW I wonder what inspires them to seek us out.... it damn sure ain't the media.
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Thanks for taking my thread seriously enough to provide a thoughtful answer. I guess the difference is some WM just have more "courage" to express what they like, huh.

I think some white women like being "different" and also pissing off racist their families. I remember back in high school, a few white girls would date Black guys seemingly for fun, knowing it would piss off their dads. Some of them actually love Black men, though, and are with them for that reason.
 

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Maybe because he thinks shes cute, or they get along well? I swear, some of yall overthink this stuff....
 

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White men want some of the best coochie in the whole wide world and know it comes from Black women.

Black women are the most educated, and the nurturing aspects are icing on the cake. I would marry myself if I could.
 

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Maybe because he thinks shes cute, or they get along well? I swear, some of yall overthink this stuff....
Not overthinking at all. When you live in a country in which a wealthy, successful Black man has just as much of a chance of marrying a non-Black woman as a Black woman but........ that is not the case with wealthy, successful White men....... then that makes this a legitimate discussion.
 

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Not overthinking at all. When you live in a country in which a wealthy, successful Black man has just as much of a chance of marrying a non-Black woman as a Black woman but........ that is not the case with wealthy, successful White men....... then that makes this a legitimate discussion.

There really isnt a discussion honestly. Its seems that you believe that BW are undesirable stuff. It really isnt hard to fathom at all. This isnt rocket science. The main reason why you dont see BWWM is because most BW arent into WM like that. Not that we arent wanted.
 

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