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Why Do You Believe Some White Men Prefer Black Women?

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Not “whitatized” so don’t care about the mind of a white man.

The slaves were freed long ago.
 

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Not overthinking at all. When you live in a country in which a wealthy, successful Black man has just as much of a chance of marrying a non-Black woman as a Black woman but........ that is not the case with wealthy, successful White men....... then that makes this a legitimate discussion.

Why is it so hard to phantom the idea that some white men generally prefer black women? Like jesus christ

Right? Im starting to think this is a BM trolling... You know they love to stay on this thread.....
 

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There really isnt a discussion honestly. Its seems that you believe that BW are undesirable stuff.
Yes, it is a discussion or there would be no responses to my OP. And another thing, I never stated BW are "undesirable" so if that is what is "seems" to you well, I can't help that.
 

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You literally said in your last response that wealthy white men dont marry BW. You said it without saying it. Why is it so hard for some of you to fathom that some men just like BW? Why does it have to be a specific reason other than basic attraction and compatibility?....

Yes, it is a discussion or there would be no responses to my OP. And another thing, I never stated BW are "undesirable" so if that is what is "seems" to you well, I can't help that.
 

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You literally said in your last response that wealthy white men dont marry BW. You said it without saying it. Why is it so hard for some of you to fathom that some men just like BW? Why does it have to be a specific reason other than basic attraction and compatibility?....
No - if the motivation to date and marry was based purely on "basic attraction and compatibility" then we will probably find more interracial marriages. In the OP the gentleman evidently has a preference for..... (nevermind).

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I've observed that many of the white men who are with pretty black women were seen as "lames" or rejects to the pretty white girls but they approach a hot black woman they snag her.

I also find the swirl couples who are in similar age range the woman is the breadwinner, and it is accepted.

If neither is the case then its a sugar daddy situation and shes a fetish
 

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I've observed that many of the white men who are with black women were seen as "lames" to white girls then they approach a hot black woman and snag her.

I also find the swirl couples who are in similar age range the woman is the breadwinner, and it is accepted.

If neither is the case then its a sugar daddy situation and shes a fetish
Dayum - you took every negative scenario possibly known to interracial romance and captured them in one post.

However, the couple in the OP is comprised of an attractive white man in the same age range as his wife and...... he came with his own stash of cash.
 

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Dayum - you took every negative scenario possibly known to interracial romance and captured them in one post.

However, the couple in the OP is comprised of an attractive white man in the same age range as his wife and...... he came with his own stash of cash.
He was with a miss america who is beautiful prior to his fame on tv, and he is basic in looks and Proves my first point.
 

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There's this white dude at my job and I swear, in the two+ years he has been there I have NEVER seen him interact with anyone but Black or Hispanic people, particularly women. I noticed he'll go to a Black supervisor or manager, before a white one. Dude just don't seem to fµck with white folks at all lol
 

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Absolutely. Especially, white men with money.

I have a very diverse group of friends and their HUSBANDS constantly express their "love" for me and other Black women, even in front of my (Black) husband and their (white and asian) wives. They're wild! LMAO
 

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Yes, the media does show us a narrow vision of beauty but that doesn't mean everyone is brainwashed by it. Some are, but there are tons of people who are capable of thinking independently and pursue what they want. From what I've seen, white men who have a strong preference for black women grew up around a diverse group of people. Maybe their first crush was black and for men, their early crushes kinda to form their preferences later. Some are the run of the mill fetishists, and others have an affinity for black culture some in a sincere way and some in a cringey way. It all depends.
 

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It depends on the individual white man. Maybe he feels more comfortable around black women, and finds them more relatable and physically attractive than other women.
 

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Well we are women and black, so i can’t tell you what white men think about?
 

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People aren’t that complicated. Yt men, black men, asian etc. Men aren’t that mysterious. They date who they find attractive and regardless of what the media you consumes tell you, people follow their attraction. Why the attraction to a bw or any woman is unique to that individual but it literally boils down to a personal preference.
 

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I just came here for tea b/c My 100 Day Dream Home is my new fave as well. I was trying to figure out if Mika is Jade's mama.

ETA: Premature posting
 

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This question is impossible to answer. It would really have to be considered on a case by case basis.

At the end of the day, regardless of what's promoted by the media, BW are still women/viable partners and at some point, the paths of a single BW and a single WM will cross and they'll decide to get together. It's not rocket science, it's just nature.

Now when it comes to WM who just straight up prefer BW, I think there is a story behind that preference but I don't think the origins are always fetishistic.
 

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Sometimes I feel like they’re so ashamed of being seen as a racist that they actively pursue these relationships. I’ve never heard a white guy who dated black women exclusively give a good reason for it other than “they understand me”—which is absolute bµllsh!t. The most abused has nothing in common with the most powerful.
 

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I never stated that Black women are not beautiful.

The U.S. sets WW up to secure the most eligible men in their race and some of the most eligible in the Black race. They promote them on tv, in the movies and other mediums. There's evidence that their efforts are successful because it is difficult to name very wealthy and successful BM who marry ebony-hued BW.

I wonder with all of the coaching, how these eligible white men buck the system and prefer/pursue BW. Is it in their DNA? Upbringing? Just wanting your thoughts.

Interracial dating is dependent upon proximity. We still live in a heavily segregated society. There's a reason why the dude in your OP married a Black woman he's known since high school. All of the white men who've pursued me have never dated a Black woman in their lives, but because we were always hanging out they developed feelings for me. A Black friend of mine only dates white men, and when we ended up encountering one of her former hookups, his friend was more than willing to hook up with me when they went off to her apartment.

Only truly racist white men think Black women are unattractive and recoil from us no matter what we look like.

Getting a white man to pursue you isn't rocket science.


Anyways, let me watch this show so Mika can be the next Joanna Gaines. I want to see her stuff in Target.
 
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I never stated that Black women are not beautiful.

The U.S. sets WW up to secure the most eligible men in their race and some of the most eligible in the Black race. They promote them on tv, in the movies and other mediums. There's evidence that their efforts are successful because it is difficult to name very wealthy and successful BM who marry ebony-hued BW.

I wonder with all of the coaching, how these eligible white men buck the system and prefer/pursue BW. Is it in their DNA? Upbringing? Just wanting your thoughts.

But we are not white men. LOL! If I see my ex-husband I’ll ask him.
 

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So, my next new favorite design show is HGTV's 100 Day Dream Home with Mika and Brian Kleinschmidt. Their goal is to build your dream home within 100 days.

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So, I looked them up. They're from Florida, knew each other from high school and he was once married to Erika Dunlap (Miss Florida 2003 who went on to become Miss America). I remember her.

(43) Miss America 2004 - crowning moment - YouTube
crowning around 2:00 mark
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Do you think some white men just have a preference for Black women -- like some men prefer brunettes?

What do you think triggers that preference in them? Do you believe it's in their DNA? Upbringing?


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1- OP no way to know but to ask a WM.

2- I agree somewhat with this response. Which basically explains xesual imprinting. Once the imprint is set, it’s a wrap. That’s pretty much your preference, though some people may try different types here and there.

Yes, the media does show us a narrow vision of beauty but that doesn't mean everyone is brainwashed by it. Some are, but there are tons of people who are capable of thinking independently and pursue what they want. From what I've seen, white men who have a strong preference for black women grew up around a diverse group of people. Maybe their first crush was black and for men, their early crushes kinda to form their preferences later. Some are the run of the mill fetishists, and others have an affinity for black culture some in a sincere way and some in a cringey way. It all depends.
 

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I just came here for tea b/c My 100 Day Dream Home is my new fave as well. I was trying to figure out if Mika is Jade's mama.

ETA: Premature posting
I believe she is Jade's mom though I can understand you being confused. She looks nothing like her mother and doesn't look mixed.

Looks like Brian has a love for reality tv. This is not the first tv program he was on. When he was married to Ericka Dunlap (below) they were featured on The Amazing Race and finished 3rd overall. He enjoys the spotlight.

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I believe she is Jade's mom though I can understand you being confused. She looks nothing like her mother and doesn't look mixed.

Looks like Brian has a love for reality tv. This is not the first tv program he was on. When he was married to Ericka Dunlap (below) they were featured on The Amazing Race and finished 3rd overall. He enjoys the spotlight.

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Interesting! He must be thrilled that this new show is taking off.

After posting here, I Googled and found that Brian is the stepdad (or "Bonus Dad" as the post put it), so Jade is indeed Mika's. I guess her bio dad's genes are strong.
 

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Same stupid fµck!ng questions every day. The same threads every day. And yes, I came in just to say that. To just sit and wonder about sh!t like this is really not healthy. Are you taking a poll? Is this for a class? What the fµck? Why don’t you get a microphone and go and ask white men what they think. This sh!t is getting ridiculous now. I don’t know why fonts keep on falling for this. Y’all are being studied and y’all don’t even realize this sh!t
 

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These types of threads are so weird to me. I really think most of them are started by nonblack women who can’t believe their beloved white men could ever want us : unamused:
 

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If you "prefer" anyone other than your background, and I don't mean you've dated all kinds of people - I mean, you have an aversion to people of your background to the point where you elevate others - there's something psychological going on.

Whether it's a trauma or fetish based, that's up for debate.
 

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It’s as simple as that is who they happen to be attracted to. Everyone has a certain preference and there is nothing wrong with that.
 

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It’s as simple as that is who they happen to be attracted to. Everyone has a certain preference and there is nothing wrong with that.
I believe there is something else to it as well. But I also feel this way about Kim Kardashian, OJ Simpson and men who only like blondes.
 

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If they saw women for their "uniqueness" then their range of women would be more diverse. In this country WW are promoted so effectively - so intentionally - so cleverly that I wonder what could possibly inspire a WM to decide they prefer to mate with a BW.

To keep it short, its very likeky those women arent negroes but WOC (unbroken caucasian maternal line) .

Find out if they belong to freemasonic/fraternal orders families, then you'll have your answer.
 

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