PoeticPisces
Too young for MySpace, too old for Tik Tok
I’m tired of hearing about it, I think they’re just making it up. Honestly, I don’t even think this “horrible ex” even existed and they are in fact the horrible one. Does this really work on some people?
It’s so lame, it won’t even be men you’re trying to seriously date talking about their ex or asking you a million questions about yours. It reflects badly on them to talk badly about someone they probably asked to be their “girlfriend” as in she didn’t force them to date or commit to her. I’m just sitting there thinking, is this how he’s going to talk about me to other people if we don’t work out? Is there some guy I’ve dated who’s lying and saying I’m their “mean ex” in order to now get sympathy from the next girl?
I had a guy friend talk about breaking up with his girlfriend after she moved away and I was like you could still make it work, and he was like “nah I didn’t really like her that much anyway” ... then why ask her to be your girlfriend if you didn’t like her? You’re just making yourself look bad, not your ex, either by admitting you like drama (toxic people) or you’re the type to be with some just because even though you don’t really like them like that. You don’t come as cool but acting like you didn’t care. You come off desperate by choosing to stay with people you didn’t like or treated you badly.
This is why I make sure now to always ask about their family life and past relationships early on — you’ll learn a lot about how they view love and relationships.
It’s so lame, it won’t even be men you’re trying to seriously date talking about their ex or asking you a million questions about yours. It reflects badly on them to talk badly about someone they probably asked to be their “girlfriend” as in she didn’t force them to date or commit to her. I’m just sitting there thinking, is this how he’s going to talk about me to other people if we don’t work out? Is there some guy I’ve dated who’s lying and saying I’m their “mean ex” in order to now get sympathy from the next girl?
I had a guy friend talk about breaking up with his girlfriend after she moved away and I was like you could still make it work, and he was like “nah I didn’t really like her that much anyway” ... then why ask her to be your girlfriend if you didn’t like her? You’re just making yourself look bad, not your ex, either by admitting you like drama (toxic people) or you’re the type to be with some just because even though you don’t really like them like that. You don’t come as cool but acting like you didn’t care. You come off desperate by choosing to stay with people you didn’t like or treated you badly.
This is why I make sure now to always ask about their family life and past relationships early on — you’ll learn a lot about how they view love and relationships.
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