incogneato
No face, no case.
I am currently a student and it seems that I can't seem to catch a break with some people when it comes to my 'single' status. If I turn down a guy, or simply don't reciprocate his interest, people get MAJORLY bothered, especially other women (this has been happening since my grade school days).
I will never understand why another woman, of all people, would place so much stock into whether or not I have a man. Is it because they are trying to connect me with someone because they perceive me as a threat to the men they are interested in? Are they trying to preserve the honor of their male friends who happen to be interested in me when I don't reciprocate the favor; attempting to make the point that I am somehow missing out on something and someone so wonderful and spectacular?
I am not trying to get into any beefs with females who take it upon themselves to manipulate my love life due to their insecurities, if that is the case. The concern comes off as self-serving and less than genuine.
I might have answered my question, but I am just frustrated at this point. What gives?
I will never understand why another woman, of all people, would place so much stock into whether or not I have a man. Is it because they are trying to connect me with someone because they perceive me as a threat to the men they are interested in? Are they trying to preserve the honor of their male friends who happen to be interested in me when I don't reciprocate the favor; attempting to make the point that I am somehow missing out on something and someone so wonderful and spectacular?
I am not trying to get into any beefs with females who take it upon themselves to manipulate my love life due to their insecurities, if that is the case. The concern comes off as self-serving and less than genuine.
I might have answered my question, but I am just frustrated at this point. What gives?