StephSydney
Censured for calling out grape culture
Also to be honest - unless you have dated in both the USA and UK then you cannot compare. All women in all countries complain about their local dating scenes.
UK Black men are all lowkey gay, if we are being honest.
They have problem with you kissing another guy in 2012 but will line up to get head from their fellow roadman behind a dumpster corner and have no problem with that.
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P. S: dated/, dealt with a fair amount of both. The UK male slander is actual, factual and valid AF.
I concur. Its highly suspect and beyond accurate. They're also mediocre and complacent in the dating game. Once women travel, this is solidified even further.No but in all seriousness it’s true
There is a weird homoerotic nature with the men in London particularly like I’ve known men who would go all out for their “boys” and won’t even get flowers for their partners it’s so odd to watch. I remember listening to chuckies podcast where they had the Canadian girl speak about her experience
And she said the British men here have a lot of things handed to them so they feel they never have to try with women and so the wooing stage never quite happens. It’s lacklustre energy all around.
I said this in another thread but j truly believe a lot of men are just emotionally attracted to other men. That's why they act just flat out weird towards other women; refusing to put in any effort at all to women, but go all in for their boys. How can you say that's how a straight man acts?No but in all seriousness it’s true
There is a weird homoerotic nature with the men in London particularly like I’ve known men who would go all out for their “boys” and won’t even get flowers for their partners it’s so odd to watch. I remember listening to chuckies podcast where they had the Canadian girl speak about her experience
And she said the British men here have a lot of things handed to them so they feel they never have to try with women and so the wooing stage never quite happens. It’s lacklustre energy all around.
I'm a woman and even I'm wondering this. They're also complaining about the same things but swear that the men in their country are worst than the ones in other countries. Lol. I live in Canada and I like Canadian men. I don't see a problem with them being quiet and polite. My man fits that category and that's what I like.do women ever stop complaining about men? we are not that complicated.
I'm a woman and even I'm wondering this. They're also complaining about the same things but swear that the men in their country are worst than the ones in other countries. Lol. I live in Canada and I like Canadian men. I don't see a problem with them being quiet and polite. My man fits that category and that's what I like.
Tell us about Canadian men please.
I haven't seen nor heard recent complaint threads about Canadian men...
No one is on this thread has said they enjoy cat calling. Wanting a man who goes after what he wants isn't the same as wanting to be cat called.Lol. As, I said, I don't have a problem with them. I'm no longer on the market so my perspective might be skewed, but even when I was single and dating, I didn't have a problem with them. Canadian men are known for being quiet and aren't the type to cat call women. Some people have a problem with that. They want men who'll aggressively pursue them. I don't like that and prefer men who are more subtle in their approach. I think personality and personally preferences has a lot of influence on how we view the men in our respective countries.
You think men that think women should approach them in clubs is a subtle approach ?Lol. As, I said, I don't have a problem with them. I'm no longer on the market so my perspective might be skewed, but even when I was single and dating, I didn't have a problem with them. Canadian men are known for being quiet and aren't the type to cat call women. Some people have a problem with that. They want men who'll aggressively pursue them. I don't like that and prefer men who are more subtle in their approach. I think personality and personally preferences has a lot of influence on how we view the men in our respective countries.
Why is that so hard to understand? I'm not expecting men to approach on the streets but men here won't won't approach a woman who they see frequently or lives nearby them, a familiar face etc. They don't really approach women in clubs either. A lot of younger guys here are socially awkward and don't even want to make eye contact with you. So even then its not even guys who you would want to approach. It's just ridiculous I don't even know how women date here.No one is on this thread has said they enjoy cat calling. Wanting a man who goes after what he wants isn't the same as wanting to be cat called.
Lol. As, I said, I don't have a problem with them. I'm no longer on the market so my perspective might be skewed, but even when I was single and dating, I didn't have a problem with them. Canadian men are known for being quiet and aren't the type to cat call women. Some people have a problem with that. They want men who'll aggressively pursue them. I don't like that and prefer men who are more subtle in their approach. I think personality and personally preferences has a lot of influence on how we view the men in our respective countries.
What is dating like in France? Out of the 4 countries which was the best in terms of dating?I have lived in France, UK, Canada, Australia.
Dating sucks everywhere.
What you're saying is true! My cousin and his friend are both professional in shape, tall, reasonably good looking black men in their 20s and they were laughing at how easy it is to date. My cousin goes to the gym and women talk to him. He goes to the local supermarket and comes back with a number. It's completely different for these guys as the numbers are in their favour (I know plenty of gorgeous single professional black women but my professional black male friends are in relationships and there are fewer of them in the first place). These guys know they can put in minimal effort unfortunately.It could be a "grass is greener" syndrome.
The majority of black men are no prize in England. Sad but true. Extremely hostile, rude, loud and undereducated. Locked out of plum jobs, having to go it alone in many cases because the networking and nepotism is non existent in corporate arenas. Hence their reasoning and desire to run after and attach their wagons to white women in the UK.
Now when you find a good black man and he is ticking all the boxes, he will be a prize but the prizes nowadays are very few and far in between in the UK.
And judging some of the male fonts on this forum tells me all I need to know about the black men in the UK staying low on the totem pole of life.
@BahiaMA71 is a disgruntled groaner who is either a male font who is hollaring or a delusional pickme who has no selfesteem. Get a grip groaner.