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Would you be upset if your boyfriend called your sister beautiful

Would you be okay with this

  • Yes I would

    Votes: 8 11.3%
  • No, not at all.

    Votes: 63 88.7%

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Let's say that your boyfriend recently met your family and he really likes your sister who's 23. He's always asking you about her, and saying how beautiful/ cute she is, talking to her whenever he can, asks for her number. - would you be okay with this?
 

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I feel like you already know the answer to this. I know. You know. My cat knows. The FBI Agent monitoring you knows.
 

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Let's say that your boyfriend recently met your family and he really likes your sister who's 23. He's always asking you about her, and saying how beautiful/ cute she is, talking to her whenever he can, asks for her number. - would you be okay with this?

Absolutely not
 

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LOL he is bold as fukk. He clearly feels like he made a mistake with you and wants your sister. No shame about it either. I would cut him off. That is not something I need to ever be worried about.
 

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I was coming in to say no I wouldn’t be bothered, but I would be with all the other behavior you listed.
 

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I was coming in to say no I wouldn’t be bothered, but I would be with all the other behavior you listed.
 

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He has no shame in telling you how much he finds your sister attractive. Don’t walk away. Run!
 

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No, if a guy acts the way you describe, he’s clearly attracted to your younger sister and needs to be dumped and ignored by you and your younger sister as he will do the exact same thing to her.
 

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Let's say that your boyfriend recently met your family and he really likes your sister who's 23. He's always asking you about her, and saying how beautiful/ cute she is, talking to her whenever he can, asks for her number. - would you be okay with this?

no because so a woman thinketh..is she and

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ETA I ain’t read the whole post HE DOING TOO MUCH. Dump that bastard !!
 

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OP

Tell us about your sibling rivalry first.

Lol Yes.

I voted 'No' before reading because it is dependant on her relationship with her sister.

I hlam the youngest sister and my sisters are beautiful and I wouldn't feel some type of way about.
 

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I was coming in to say no I wouldn’t be bothered, but I would be with all the other behavior you listed.

Right. Lol
It went from a simple compliment to straight shooting his shot.
If you aren’t trolling, OP, I suggest you dump him.
 

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OP

Tell us about your sibling rivalry first.

Lol Yes.

I voted 'No' before reading because it is dependant on her relationship with her sister.

I hlam the youngest sister and my sisters are beautiful and I wouldn't feel some type of way about.
 

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I wouldn't mind him calling my sister beautiful. All my siblings and family are beautiful. But all that other sh!t? I'd be done with his ass
 

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Why I knew the op story would be extra asf compared to the title question...

No I wouldn't have a problem with my bf calling my sister beautiful, however you're story is a little/lot different. He obviously don't want you!!
 

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Totally fine op. In fact, his behaviour sooooo normal, desired and should be encouraged.

Any other way would be wrong.

Estupido.
 

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If he made a comment like this in the context of "well, you're cute, and your sister's cute; you have a good looking family" then that's one thing. But the rest of what you said...
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Why I knew the op story would be extra asf compared to the title question...

No I wouldn't have a problem with my bf calling my sister beautiful, however you're story is a little/lot different. He obviously don't want you!!

Right, I came in here to say no. But hell yeah that's a red flag
 

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I mean my sisters are beautiful so my hypothetical bf would be stating facts but to go on and on about it and to constantly ask about them (other than to see how they are) is weirdo behavior. Your bf is acting like he regrets choosing you. That's different than him just calling your sister beautiful
 

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One of my sisters boyfriend said all your sisters are pretty but you are the prettiest one.

Another sister husband called me beautiful. She didn’t like that at all. His sister told me. We all been friends since childhood. She didn’t know what possessed him to say that knowing how my sister is.

Guys I’ve dated only told me all my sisters and me look alike.

Men have a tendency to give women compliments. Especially when not asked. It’s about respect and knowing how your SO feels about you giving other women compliments.

Now in OP case. He was doing too much and can’t be trusted. She already know red flags are up everywhere and knows what to do. I don’t understand why so many women lack pride. I got killer instincts and can cut a guy real quick.
 

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I feel like you already know the answer to this. I know. You know. My cat knows. The FBI Agent monitoring you knows.


My left ass cheek knows. I can see if it were a regular compliment but dude damn near is asking if he can put his male parts in her sister.
 

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My lil sis is gorgeous I would actually be offended if my man didn’t notice it!

My big sis body is shitting on my whole life even after 3 kids and my ex BF did notice it.
 

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I would not get upset about him beautiful (she is) but I'd be questioning him doing all the other stuff.
 

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