I don't have to worry about pregnancy, so yes! I would test his bomb dack the hell out! I wanna see what is attracting all of this attention to a man with nothing but his fabulous gift of phugging!
I think that with every child, a man becomes more numb to committing to a woman. If he never married the first woman he ever had a child with, he's dismissed. If he divorced the first woman within the first five years of the child's life, he's dismissed. It signifies his pattern of running when things get difficult. I don't need that. If you can leave your first real love, you can certainly leave me because the ideology of being married and having a child by your soulmate is dead. It diminishes more and more with every child. I know women who believed that their relationships were more "special" than the other babymamas. :