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Almost did. We stayed friends. Middleastern dude. Nice guy. Religious but not overt. Friends and family were cool too, but they kept hammering home that I should convert. Felt like I was being recruited. He eventually married a yte girl who was not muslim and I know she did not convert. 1-2 of his friends married non-muslim women and pretty certain they didn't convert either.
 

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Also prophet Muhammad didn’t like black people didn’t he refer to black people as raisin heads lmao. Also whilst dating a Muslim just know their family will never approve.
 

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I did. Really lovely man but his family are conservative Muslims so it was obviously leading to nowhere. I am spiritual not religious and I was not going to convert anyways.
 

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Also prophet Muhammad didn’t like black people didn’t he refer to black people as raisin heads lmao. Also whilst dating a Muslim just know their family will never approve.

The bolded! It doesn't matter if they are progressive, it's over if their family says no.
 
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Almost did. We stayed friends. Middleastern dude. Nice guy. Religious but not overt. Friends and family were cool too, but they kept hammering home that I should convert. Felt like I was being recruited. He eventually married a yte girl who was not muslim and I know she did not convert. 1-2 of his friends married non-muslim women and pretty certain they didn't convert either.

It is a common misconception that Muslim men must marry Muslim women. Muslim men are permitted to marry women 'of the book' (Christian or Jewish women). Women aren't required to revert to Islam to marry Muslim men. However, Muslim women must marry Muslim men.
 

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U guys do know a lot of Muslim families put their culture first. So if a middle eastern Muslim family is saying no to you its cause your black not cause your non Muslim reason why you see them end up with non Muslim white women.
 

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I don’t think so. I hate to stereotype, but they have a reputation for being controlling towards their wives and girlfriends.
 

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Also prophet Muhammad didn’t like black people didn’t he refer to black people as raisin heads lmao. Also whilst dating a Muslim just know their family will never approve.

That’s not true. Bilal was a Black man that was one of his closest companions and had the title of the first muezzin (person who gives call to prayer) bestowed upon him. In his last sermon he also preached about all races being equal. Some of y’all make up anything.

Anyway, I would as I am Muslim myself. Not all Muslims are super strict and orthodox like myself so it’d just have to be about finding one who is compatible.
 

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It is a common misconception that Muslim men must marry Muslim women. Muslim men are permitted to marry women 'of the book' (Christian or Jewish women). Women aren't required to revert to Islam to marry Muslim men. However, Muslim women must marry Muslim men.

Why do you say "revert" instead of convert?
 

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Probably not. Even if he is secular his family most likely isn’t and muslims always do what their families want.
 

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were not but I don’t care. The religion is so strict...I’m supposed to wear a hijab but I don’t and most of my family does not. I just go to the religion classes my parents make me go to every Friday out of respect and then live my life.

I’ve dated in the past and decided that dating wasn’t for me. I don’t want kids, I don’t want to get married and decided to find fulfillment in things other than romantic partnership.
Girl same!
 

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If a Muslim man is casually dating then he is not a pious or practising Muslim. As a Muslim, I want all women to realise that a Muslim man who is 'dating' you will never be in a position to seriously commit to you due to familial & cultural ties. Even if the man reassures you that he is okay with it, someone in his family is not. The family will come before a girlfriend every time, so you're putting yourself in a lose-lose situation.

All Muslims are completely aware that dating/premarital intimacy is haraam. It will always be at the forefront of the conversation.
Well most are not pious or practicing,most drink, smoke and fuq around but still expect woman to convert and raise children in that fraudulent religion, it is a religion of two faces
 

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No, they cannot. Many do casually date, but it is not permissible in Islam. All Muslims know that dating is haraam. There are no interpretations or Islamic teachings that contest this. There is a difference between 'can date' and 'do date.' As previously said, Muslim men who date are either not practising or living a double life that is hidden from their family and community.

Regardless, I'm not going to be told about my Islamic faith by someone with an alcohol reference in their username.
It's a known fact Muslim women give blow jobs and take it up their bootay, to protect the virginity, how can you virgin chek a man? You cant, they do fuq around and claim they are very much religious. And I dont get why its haram when Mohammad was a sinful man himself. Weird.
 

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No self respecting Muslim man would ever leave the religion lol . Happy for you tho.
Is he black ? Inquiring minds want to know.
Assuming that’s what you meant .
I’m Christian he used to be Christian. And he is Indian.
 

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It is a common misconception that Muslim men must marry Muslim women. Muslim men are permitted to marry women 'of the book' (Christian or Jewish women). Women aren't required to revert to Islam to marry Muslim men. However, Muslim women must marry Muslim men.
That is the problem I have. Being that we want to get married. I’m not about to force my daughter to marry a Muslim man.
 

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The irony a Muslim man can marry who TF he wants from any religious background but the woman can’t lmao. How lovely that must be
 

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